50? A bit too old for me. I will be 36 soon but if that's you in your avatar and you were 45 I'd be all over you then!
It seems 38-41 year olds are attracted to me on OLD though. I dunno why. I did try and message a 46 year old hottie. She said the age thing is a problem and that I was never married.
Why the hell do older women suddenly talk to me and I had a couple dates with them? Why would they want someone a bit younger?
I would plow a 45 year old of they were hot. Most on here are repulsed by women over 35 though.
The avatar is me. Unretouched proof from photos taken last month so very current.
It’s interesting. I have no interest in men substantially younger than me. There is one man who is a friend of mine who likes older women (he’s 37 and a very handsome man who was a club promoter for years in several major markets), and he’s never married or had children and he’s well put together (stylish, tall, built at 6’2” and 260 of muscle, successful)...and he’s expressed interest in me but I don’t feel it.
I’d rather have a man closer to my own age who has got the marriage thing & the children thing done. I relate better with those life experiences. The 37 yo man I mentioned is the youngest sibling in his family and has a sibling who is 48 or 49, but he doesn’t want kids as he says he’s too selfish for that and wants to marry once, be spontaneous and have sex whenever & where ever.
All reasonable things in my book, but I think he’s better suited to someone closer to his own age. I prefer a man whose life experience is similar or greater than my own so I actually turn down men in their 30s. I’m just not into them no matter what. Sometimes the more handsome the more they get snotty or butthurt about it but what can I say? I am always kind in turning them down but these are men who typically do not get rejected. I look for men who I can respect & defer to. Much younger men I typically think I know more than they do about life. That’s not good.
Now obviously none of that matters if it’s just sex. But personally I’m not a “just sex” kinda gal. Never have been. I know a few women who are, and they typically see younger men because the sexual stamina is greater but I’ve always been geared toward intimacy and therefore I look for men who have traits for a relationship and sexual chemistry is only one factor (although a very important one.)
The main thing I find at 50 is that men who are able to pull much younger women (as many men 45-55 are) are happy to date someone their own age IF she is still fit/hot/beautiful/attractive. The kids thing is a non issue, the cultural frame of reference is the same and there is a similarity of life experience which lends itself to compatibility and companionship. All good things. So keeping my looks up has more to do with staying visible and appealing to men in my preferred age range. Obviously I do it for myself first but that should be self evident.
So those are some thoughts. Cheers