"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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article: Very Honest Men Explain Why They Refuse To Date Fat Women

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who Dares Win

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Online daring is rough enough without some guy responding to a message by saying "hit the gym and then we'll talk" (totally true, totally happened to me.)

Well if that becomes the norm, it wont be that bad, I mean he is just saying that she can have it as long as she improves.

Not as lucky as many short and bald men.
 

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I have been in a lot of relationships, and a lot of scenarios where the girl put on weight. As bad as it is to let your physical appearance go, being fat is a lifestyle. If you are fat too, that isn't so bad, I presume, but if not it will annoy the hell out of the skinner half. You find yourself saying things like, "why can't we take the stairs instead of waiting for the elevator?" and "You want to eat again already?"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If she's fat when you meet she will always be fat. Doesn't matter if she's going to the gym or "trying to eat better", she will never lose weight and keep it off. Don't fall for it when they try to act like they'll ever sustainably be any smaller than they are when you meet them.
 

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"We have to change the way we treat fat women. "

No we don't, we aren't attracted to them so...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If she's fat when you meet she will always be fat. Doesn't matter if she's going to the gym or "trying to eat better", she will never lose weight and keep it off. Don't fall for it when they try to act like they'll ever sustainably be any smaller than they are when you meet them.
I'm going to agree with this one. If their skin is already stretched out it's very unlikely they'll allow themselves to lose weight to the point their skin starts to hang.
 

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Fat women are hard to pick up especially if you are skinny yourself but only dating few allows you to say that you dated TONS of women.
 

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Online daring is rough enough without some guy responding to a message by saying "hit the gym and then we'll talk" (totally true, totally happened to me.)

Well if that becomes the norm, it wont be that bad, I mean he is just saying that she can have it as long as she improves.

Not as lucky as many short and bald men.
But yet down here I see women with fat, bald men and attractive ones too! I mean I'm not a slob and I'm in shape, yet how can I have troubles getting women but grease balls score them?
 

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I'm going to agree with this one. If their skin is already stretched out it's very unlikely they'll allow themselves to lose weight to the point their skin starts to hang.
I've even known women who have had their stomachs removed. At first they look good, at least with clothes on, but once they come off its loose skin everywhere because they loose weight so quickly and do nothing to gain muscle to help stretch their skin and keep it from sagging. Doesn't matter though because they keep right on eating and somehow manage to regain the weight and look almost as big as they did before they began the entire ordeal. Talk about mentally unstable.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She is probably eating choccolate cookies furiously while typing with her dirty fingers and thinking how she will get even at men with her article.

"They will see what Im capable of"
Too bad that only helps with bears that hibernate for the winter ...

 

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If their skin is already stretched out it's very unlikely they'll allow themselves to lose weight to the point their skin starts to hang.
This isn't only about women, but have you noticed how people who have been fat and lost weight, they don't look quite right somehow? Especially if they have any sort of age on them. If they're in their early 20s, say, you don't really see this effect. But if they're older, they look kind of sickly somehow, like they have a malnourished look to them. Meanwhile people who start slim and stay slim look more natural.

I've noticed this with people in real life and also actors on TV. Some of it is the stretched skin I'm sure, but there also seems to be another component to it.
 

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There's also just sag over time. Gravity does its own job as time goes on.

I was watching tv at the gym last night and helen hunt was on there, she had her face stretched like hell. Oh and Charlize Theron has officially hit the wall.
 
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