"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What turns you off about women physically?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zekko

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I wish fake boobs turned me off... those girls get me in tons of trouble.
I'm not a fan of fake boobs. But I'll admit that some have boob jobs that were very well done, and that gets my attention. Despite myself. Kaley Cuoco comes to mind.
 

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It might be strange but if a woman has ugly feet that's a turn off for me, I seen lots of decent looking women over the years look down and see ugly feet yuck.

Bolt ons are a turn off for me, never did like them, you can tell they are fake. Big women are a turn off if a woman is taller than 5'6" I'm not really interested in.

I've always been particular about women I'm interested in, as I get older I've seemed to have become even more particular. There is so much damaged goods women walking around I've gave up on finding a decent woman. You start chatting up a woman that looks like a good prospect then her red flags start flying like the national flag, end up walking away saying fvck.
 

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It might be strange but if a woman has ugly feet that's a turn off for me, I seen lots of decent looking women over the years look down and see ugly feet yuck.

Bolt ons are a turn off for me, never did like them, you can tell they are fake. Big women are a turn off if a woman is taller than 5'6" I'm not really interested in.

I've always been particular about women I'm interested in, as I get older I've seemed to have become even more particular. There is so much damaged goods women walking around I've gave up on finding a decent woman. You start chatting up a woman that looks like a good prospect then her red flags start flying like the national flag, end up walking away saying fvck.
It amazes me how many women act like they’ve never heard of dudes with foot fetishes or are turned off by guys that have them. But yet they’ll go spend $$$ on pedicures, nail polish, shoes, and get tattoos on their feet. Women can have all the fetishes they want (tattoos, beards, dad bods, etc) but if a guy has something they’ve never heard of (even if it’s one of the most common and harmless ones) they go ape crap over it. Women are flat out stupid.
 
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