"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Flirting with a girl at work today. Talked some with this one before. She's attractive and has a good vibe. Eye contact was on point and I did a little kino at a high point in the conversation.

We were talking about shift work at one point and how tired it can make you. She mentioned she doesn't get much sleep since her young son sleeps with her a lot. I told her well that's no fun and she said "well it's just me and him now" with and smile.

I had her follow me back to my desk we talked a bit more about work and at one point she touched me back. I got her number before she went back to her area.

I love women with good vibes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't **** where you eat.

Bad case scenario: She decides shes not into you. You persist, she reports you to HR for Harassment.

Bad Case scenario II: You decide you aren't into her. You feel awkward around her at work. She badmouths you to your coworkers, and half the office thinks your an *******.

Good Scenario: You hit it off, get married and you raise some other man's offspring as your own.
 
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I've never had problems with hooking up with girls at work and I still work with two that I have in the past.

It's just for fun. They know it's just for fun. We have a fling and then it's over. No big deal.
 
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It's a lot easier if she's from a different department.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I never even understood men who who work with their wives or significant other... Work is where a man goes to get away from all that shyt lol.
 
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Redwolf said:
I've never had problems with hooking up with girls at work and I still work with two that I have in the past.

It's just for fun. They know it's just for fun. We have a fling and then it's over. No big deal.
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uhhhhh..... for now....... success twice, but just be careful in the future.
 
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Pump and dump!
Sorry to say, but these single moms are looking for someone that looks after their children. This is the text that my former **** buddy (single mom) sent me when we stopped messing around.

Reconsider lol......
 

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^ Wow she was playing an insidious game there.

Not your kids, not your problem.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've found it better to just keep it focused on her. Keep it fun and sexual. She can take the kid to the sitter if she wants time with me. I don't do family time with some other dudes kids.
 
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The only scenario here is fvcking her in the car while you pick her up or drop her off from work.

Is she even hot and worth this nonsense? I doubt it.
 
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