"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women are so damn childish

051AV

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Why are women so childish when they get mad at you they hold grudges, women that know me do this at me WTF is your problem? I really don't get it. As a guy I get angry with people but I get over it and move on. I worked with women for 9 years it was nothing but an ass ache they don't get a long, they fvck things up, its just plain frustrating. Working with women for so long its turned me off of them, dealing with their BS, when I have a woman angry and holding a grudge I want to say quit being such a fvcking child.

Ya I show interest in you, when I see things that are red flags I lose interest, ya I will stay friendly but I'm not going to go any further than that, suck it up butter cup and deal with it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That's one bitter girl ure dealing with, get out of it.
 

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Don't stress over it. Use it to your advantage
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The whole thing is an act. Unless you tracked mud all over her floor or something.
 

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Don't forget the manipulative tears any time you have to discipline them or otherwise do anything other than kiss their ass. You can really tell many of these women never deal with one iota of negative feedback anywhere in their lives when they burst into tears any time you tell them they need to do something better at work. Talk about childish.
 

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The bad behavior is supported by stupid moronic parental upbringing.

It becomes a 'normal' thing to act like an ass. You must show women that you don't give a fukk and won't take any of the sh!t. Fail to do this, and they will try to walk all over you, and treat you as their 'pet'.

Frame = Nuclear Weapons, in this case.
 

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"Women are born, but men become."

That old saying means that women essentially never mature.... A 17 y.o. girl is mentally the same as a 27 y.o. woman whose also mentally the same as a 47 y.o. woman....

While boys are tried and tested through fire and suffering to become men....

Women are born, but men become....
 

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I can add another one to the p*ssed off at me list, anytime I see her she's clearly interested in me. If it wasn't a small town I live in where people know too much of each others business she would be one you would have a relationship just for sex. She's got red flags that make her tough to have a healthy relationship with. Cute enough but that's not enough to overcome her red flags.

I'm tired of the way women act, I guess its their entitlement mentality they have today the world revolves around them. I'm not one of those needy guys that will put up with their sh*t for poon tang. Women have said to me I can be a real assh*le, I don't put up with crap.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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