"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Damage of a man from a mentally ill woman

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A guy I know, seen him the other day he looks like sh*t he's got himself in a relationship with a woman with mental health issues she's fvcked in some way or another. I've talked about her she's the single mom, had a thing for me since the day I met her, when I started interacting with her my "damaged woman" meter was pegging. As I got to know her the signs were there she's mentally ill not sure with what but she just is.

Looking at the guy yesterday thinking to myself you look like sh*t there bud he's never looked like the way he does now, like he's run ragged its clearly from dealing with her. Its been a really long time since he's been hanging out with one of his best friends drinking beer.

You know it was good in a way I was involved with a borderline woman it gave me skills I never had before. If I didn't have the skills of knowing what to look for when it comes to mentally ill women. Its save me a lot of grief in the last 4 years looking for a woman, interacting with women, trust me there is a lot of damaged and fvcked up woman roaming around.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nobody forces you to stay or interact with damaged, broken woman.

Most men are weak when it comes to good dirty sex, and the allure of an attractive female.

The Only reason, why dudes end up in such a mess, is because they cannot let go of the sex.

No matter how hot she is, sometimes you have to Let these broken woman go.. For the sake of your own mental health.
 

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A guy I know, seen him the other day he looks like sh*t he's got himself in a relationship with a woman with mental health issues she's fvcked in some way or another. I've talked about her she's the single mom, had a thing for me since the day I met her, when I started interacting with her my "damaged woman" meter was pegging. As I got to know her the signs were there she's mentally ill not sure with what but she just is.

Looking at the guy yesterday thinking to myself you look like sh*t there bud he's never looked like the way he does now, like he's run ragged its clearly from dealing with her. Its been a really long time since he's been hanging out with one of his best friends drinking beer.

You know it was good in a way I was involved with a borderline woman it gave me skills I never had before. If I didn't have the skills of knowing what to look for when it comes to mentally ill women. Its save me a lot of grief in the last 4 years looking for a woman, interacting with women, trust me there is a lot of damaged and fvcked up woman roaming around.
I feel you, yeah had been there too.. Its like having a third eye, you see the world differently, act likewise. Everything were so differents, change to a whole lot better man.
 

051AV

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Nobody forces you to stay or interact with damaged, broken woman.

Most men are weak when it comes to good dirty sex, and the allure of an attractive female.

The Only reason, why dudes end up in such a mess, is because they cannot let go of the sex.

No matter how hot she is, sometimes you have to Let these broken woman go.. For the sake of your own mental health.
She's putting on the pounds pretty fast her face is still attractive but she's losing her figure, I don't think she's pregnant because she's getting fat all over. When I first met her she was fairly petite, now she's....... ooh, her once nice bum is huge, her little hand full breasts have turned into sweaty fat chick saggers. Her biggest down fall is no father figure in her life, wasn't raised by her biological father, she has siblings that are 10 years younger than her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A guy I know, seen him the other day he looks like sh*t he's got himself in a relationship with a woman with mental health issues she's fvcked in some way or another. I've talked about her she's the single mom, had a thing for me since the day I met her, when I started interacting with her my "damaged woman" meter was pegging. As I got to know her the signs were there she's mentally ill not sure with what but she just is.

Looking at the guy yesterday thinking to myself you look like sh*t there bud he's never looked like the way he does now, like he's run ragged its clearly from dealing with her. Its been a really long time since he's been hanging out with one of his best friends drinking beer.

You know it was good in a way I was involved with a borderline woman it gave me skills I never had before. If I didn't have the skills of knowing what to look for when it comes to mentally ill women. Its save me a lot of grief in the last 4 years looking for a woman, interacting with women, trust me there is a lot of damaged and fvcked up woman roaming around.
He's to blame. He picked low hanging fruit.
 
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