Called girl been I’ve seeing the other afternoon. She answered and sounded positive/upbeat on the phone. When I asked her availability to get out together sometime or to do dinner at my place (been dating one month, 5 dates), she said probably not until next week and she would let me know on Sunday what her availability is for the specific day she mentioned or that weekend. Been out together 5 times, she made me a fancy dinner on our third date, sex on all but the first date.
How would you read this? It’s been a little over a week since our last date when I called, and we both had vacations between so I didn’t bother initiating then.
In cases like this, with a girl you already have rapport with and have been intimate with, do you find they keep their word and actually let you know when they say they will? I realize that anything that isn’t a definitive “yes” = NO, however she did say “yes” initially, but gave me the I’ll let you know on Sunday BS.
For context, I only ever contact her to setup dates and let all the communication happen on the actual dates.
If I don’t hear from her on the day she said she would let me know, wait a full week and try again, or is it really one strike and you’re out territory?
How would you read this? It’s been a little over a week since our last date when I called, and we both had vacations between so I didn’t bother initiating then.
In cases like this, with a girl you already have rapport with and have been intimate with, do you find they keep their word and actually let you know when they say they will? I realize that anything that isn’t a definitive “yes” = NO, however she did say “yes” initially, but gave me the I’ll let you know on Sunday BS.
For context, I only ever contact her to setup dates and let all the communication happen on the actual dates.
If I don’t hear from her on the day she said she would let me know, wait a full week and try again, or is it really one strike and you’re out territory?