"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When was the last time you cried over a woman?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lamath
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Never cried about it, imo men need to control their emotion.
Like @DEEZEDBRAH would say.
I blame low T
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Lamath mate, keep your chin up. George bruno made a video about men needing to be the rock a midst the storm. He is imho one of the few guys relevant to living a red pill life. Even took responsibility for his failings on his marriage.
As for being emo, its low test in men and 60yrs of feminism as well as social engineering. The evolution of men is something not yet seen before. Marriage is cuck. Cohabitation and children equate to Russian roulette once she bails unleashing the dogs of the state on a man whilst extracting resources.
Noncohabitation, no marriage, bachelor pad economics, and minimalist on tren. I have no use for the culture nor of any other method current to today.
Its why men are so lost atm. Low testosterone and cuck rather than adapting in the game.
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I laugh at funerals. I find humour in everything.
Lewve emotions to women and small children.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Believe me brah. If you saw the last HB3 warpig I dated you'd cry like a baby too.
Chick looked like Shrek and had a mug that would turn medusa to stone.
lamath
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Should have reread my post
Now i look like a depress AFC
That was past experience, now im kicking ass.
In2theGame
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WTF? She got engaged to another dude while dating you? How the hell did you not know she was with some other dude?
In2theGame
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She got engaged 2.5 months after she got distant and "needed time to find herself".
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She only knew the dude for 2.5 months and they got engaged??
If so they both sound insane.
Hahaha
Stop crying over women.
And if you really do need to cry, do it when no one is watching you then learn not to cry.
In2theGame
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Either that or she was seeing him for a while behind my back.
Desperate times call for desperate measures. The chick i dated was so freakin fugly Id post her pics but i don't want to get sued if a poster goes blind.
I had tried to swipe "do not want" but hit my phone so hard it flew off the table swiping the wrong way. It was too late. I said what the hell, and put a bag over my phone just to chat with her so I didn't have to see that mug of hers.
Chicks pic was phone virus fugly. Sad shiit.
She couldn't understand why i nicknamed her onion grill.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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In2theGame
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Same with an old friend of mine. He cried when he Dad was crying but the reason for it was that his Dad found out his Wife at the time was bringing over another guy into the house for sex. He almost went and bought a gun to kill them both but thankfully he thought things through.
Can't go to shouting mode or my mom will kick me out of her basement.
lamath
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I channeled sadness into controled agression/rage
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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