I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Eat more vegetables.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Everytime when I'm in Seoul, it never fails to impress me when I'm in the presence of a matured woman, they age so gracefully there.
Yikes! Yea, FL is real strict about this stuff. That would get you on To Catch a Predator. I miss that show btw. True Crime started it up again a couple years ago. Dodged a major bullet.
Dont drink with them. Not even once. No drugs. You are legally allowed to offer dyck.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Just don't end up like him lol. The newer Hansen vs Predator they have a really hot HB9 19 year old theater student. Rock solid now. So totally smash her. Those are the young women I like 20 ish like her. I'd go wild over something like that.
Yeah, when I say younger girls, I mean girls between legal age to 24.
I'll have to go on google or Reddit sometime and see if I can find out who she is. That girl is hot as F!! Really, just the way she acts, the smile and her voice and body language I'd so hit that.
You can find them in colleges or shopping malls.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
