Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Are you saying young hot 22 year old girls want to have sex with you but you are refusing because it would be a short term hook up and they are not college educated and mature enough for you?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LOL no. I wish lol. I don't know many 22 yr olds lol. I mean lol seriously if one wanted to bang me and wasn't an STD slut then um like you I would bang them. Common sense lol.
Not bad but those type at the same time attract those uber snobs as well. Hot looking women, educated but very stuck up. I'm the type and most of my family the beer drinking variety type people who social drink and into sports and that, more partying type that likes to drink beer, not white collar wine tasting. I mean I'm not into the country club type women if that's what you mean.
You know, the biggest misconception of rejection is not them rejecting you personally but the fact you botched your technique. Why not go to these places where you know the hot but snobby ones are but doing it so you can get better?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
True. Like I learned a lot from that hb9. I never had a date with an hb9 that hot before or snobby but nerves wise I felt I handled myself really well especially When she walked in and so much prettier than the photos I saw online of her. I was pretty calm. Think like jordan Binnginton game 7 lol. The flub I did was I gave too much out about my business early on and that seemed to change the mood of her big time. She was hoping I was a rich guy it seemed and that's when she started putting people down with no college degrees and that. Btw I have a degree she was talking about others.
There's no need to waste time gleaning from that encounter. Just pick out what you did right, mitigate what you did wrong, and do another approach. But most importantly approach.
Girls like animals. I went into my local shelter once right before we bought a puppy to see if they had any puppies to adopt. It was mostly old ladies there lol. But I see young girls always volunteering at this places.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.