"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl thinks insecurity = super alpha male

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She just described a cuck.

Many men are raised as cucks by their own mothers.

Sad but true.
 

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So she's saying super alpha male = "toxic masculinity" = jealous and untrusting.
No, you misunderstand her , she mean by "toxic masculinity" the men who are so masculine and macho. and it is looklike you are not that macho for her , so she said no for you. And she is right, most women go after masculine men.
 

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No, you misunderstand her , she mean by "toxic masculinity" the men who are so masculine and macho. and it is looklike you are not that macho for her , so she said no for you. And she is right, most women go after masculine men.
B!tch didn't say no. I set up a date with her dumb ass for next weekend.

The more important thing here now is that you, who have been a member since 2012, think that jealous and untrusting is macho... Where did we lead you wrong, Evan?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Only insecure women like guys who act like that, but she would never admit she's an insecure woman who likes guys that show her crazy non stop attention, so instead she said I like toxic masculinity. This way she's just an innocent victim, and doesn't have to acknowledge her own faults
 

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Wtf is toxic masculinity?
"Toxic masculinity" doesn't mean "attractive man". It means male standards that are toxic to men and getting men to feel shame and inadequacy if they don't conform to those standards. The one who screenshotted this is either as stupid as the girl who doesn't know what it means, or just made the conversation up to get a rise out of people like those reading this thread who he knows would never fact check anything.
 
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Shouldn’t have ended the conversation when she said “I like alpha males”.
 

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Among her age cohort (late teens/early 20’s it would seem) she correctly links toxic masculinity (exaggerated machismo employed to seek attention and male peer approval, usually manifested in excessive risk-taking behavior) with ‘super alpha males,’ although later incorrectly links it to needy, insecure men who are scarcity-minded.

Sounds like a girl with a good head on her shoulders.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just so you guys know toxic masculinity is what being a real men is, by feminist girls. when your hear a girl say toxic masculinity you can kick her or the very least don't take her for anything more then sex.

what I read she saying she like real men, but she is so dumb she can't even grasp such saying and need to parrot the feminists around her.

what feminist would say its a good masculinity now? any cuck who would provide for her after her year of ridding, so any lack of self respect idiot who belives he is a real men, so you really don't want to be that guy
 
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