Dr.magnetic
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Girls spend all day on Instagram. Why dont you use that to your advantage?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
because am unpoopularGirls spend all day on Instagram. Why dont you use that to your advantage?
Its not about popularity, Its ALL about intrigue.because am unpoopular
This guy has a small following, but there are no girls lining outside his door to suck his ****.Its not about popularity, Its ALL about intrigue.
ladies? id say people watch him because they like pity videos, or maybe hes funnyThis guy has a small following, but there are no girls lining outside his door to suck his ****.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How exactly would one use that as an advantage?Girls spend all day on Instagram. Why dont you use that to your advantage?
Dm me, I prefer having 1 on 1 conversation, and it's a lot simpler than you think.How exactly would one use that as an advantage?
Instagram girls get the best of everything. Tons of validation and money and they never have to touch a pee pee.
How could some keyboard jockey use that as an advantage?
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That's a dude? No............This guy has a small following, but there are no girls lining outside his door to suck his ****.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
1st show me ur intriguing skills and then I'll show you mine.Dm me, I prefer having 1 on 1 conversation, and it's a lot simpler than you think.
No matter how much you try to slide in her DM's, she's probably not going ti reply to you. You are scattered in a pool of 100+ other unread message requests that she is never going to look at.
I've got like 36 followers, so i'm gonna give stormriders method a go! There's some absolute worldies who live fairly close to me on instagram! Gonna Drop into their DM's and see what happens lolI once flew across the world to bang an 18 year old chick i saw dancing on Instagram. She had tons of followers. I have like 2. .
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Please tell me how "intriguing" you are when you spend all day on ANY form of social media.Its not about popularity, Its ALL about intrigue.
Once the pendulum swings, "don't use OLD or social media" might some day be as basic and common advice as "don't buy things for girls" is now. Don't waste away your life-resources, doing things you wouldn't do if it weren't for chasing pvssy, just to end up among the other countless AFCs already in her inboxes trying to do whatever it takes to one-up each other for a chance at the golden V... Me! me! pick me! I promise I stand out!I think someday this may all cycle out and real life will be as popular as ever.
true but are you getting laid regularly or are you larperOnce the pendulum swings, "don't use OLD or social media" might some day be as basic and common advice as "don't buy things for girls" is now. Don't waste away your life-resources, doing things you wouldn't do if it weren't for chasing pvssy, just to end up among the other countless AFCs already in her inboxes trying to do whatever it takes to one-up each other for a chance at the golden V... Me! me! pick me! I promise I stand out!
If you aren't the kind of guy who doesn't need OLD or social media in the first place, then you shouldn't be on it either...
Maybe. I think people are now dependent on social media for money more than ever. Instagram is more of a thing used for someone’s job than for hooking up or making friends. People are on it all day because it is a cash cow. Hoes are getting paid like $10,000 for one post.Fck Instagram. Its nothing more then beefed up OLD. The ****s becoming a mental addiction for ppl. Ill take a face to face convo any day. Don't substitute this **** for perusing your talents and passion.
I think someday this may all cycle out and real life will be as popular as ever.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.