mrgoodstuff
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Yessir. "Hit it hard"
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
One on one
- Thread starter Brooks
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't care even if 100% of the female population in the United States or the world disagrees with me.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
We all just got trolled lol 13 pages .. good grief.
Brooks go read my field report.
Someone here said "Nothing is worth more than your peace of mind."
I agree 100%
Your not "Tearing it up" your getting cucked.
Brooks go read my field report.
Someone here said "Nothing is worth more than your peace of mind."
I agree 100%
Your not "Tearing it up" your getting cucked.
Hardly trolling. I wish.
Not cucked yet; she would have to be heavily disrespecting or sleeping with him. She thoroughly explained what it was. I’ll dig through her phone and get some real answers and report back.
People take any chance here to put down the guy who is putting himself out there. It’s sad.
But Didn’t you just get dumped by a teenager? I could see why you would be quick to try to take a shot at someone else in your fragile state...
This monsieur is the best sign of an unhealthy relationship. And you know she doesnt like it...
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I know.
One must protect himself at all times though. Especially after everything else
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
OP, your problem is that you don't have standards. This fact is going to come back and bite you hard one day.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She cheated on his azz?
I didn't read all 13 pages, but I can say that OP wants to believe anything, because he fears to lose his girlfriend this much. The fact is, she doesn't see you as her man and spinning plates openly, using lame excuses. Even if she believes it herself, her instincts are very direct. If you were her alpha, she wouldn't dare playing these games with orbiters. And she wouldn't want to. She would want more of YOUR time, not some lame company of yet another beta orbiter.
I'll tell you what happens next because it happened to me, while I was playing all that tough and confident and not caring about "competitors". One day she finally finds someone she can monkey branch to. He doesn't even have to be all that alpha, he just has to be NEW and "good enough" to help her heal after the break up with you. Then VERY SUDDENLY she tells you she needs "a pause", or "some space" or other BS we're all familiar with and go to that guy. If it doesn't work out, she will return to you in a few months, knowing that you're her b!tch and forgive her "mistakes". And you will. You know you will, otherwise you have already ditched that attention wh0re.
Don't force yourself to trust a woman. It's her job to win your trust and the right for exclusivity. You should have drawn this line about dating male "friends" long ago, now you're just a cuck. Don't try to fix this relationship, once you've lost, your rep stays with you. Learn your mistakes and move on. It will hurt, but it's better than wait for the inevitable breakup where she dumps you, 'cause that would hurt much, much more and for much, much longer.
I'll tell you what happens next because it happened to me, while I was playing all that tough and confident and not caring about "competitors". One day she finally finds someone she can monkey branch to. He doesn't even have to be all that alpha, he just has to be NEW and "good enough" to help her heal after the break up with you. Then VERY SUDDENLY she tells you she needs "a pause", or "some space" or other BS we're all familiar with and go to that guy. If it doesn't work out, she will return to you in a few months, knowing that you're her b!tch and forgive her "mistakes". And you will. You know you will, otherwise you have already ditched that attention wh0re.
Don't force yourself to trust a woman. It's her job to win your trust and the right for exclusivity. You should have drawn this line about dating male "friends" long ago, now you're just a cuck. Don't try to fix this relationship, once you've lost, your rep stays with you. Learn your mistakes and move on. It will hurt, but it's better than wait for the inevitable breakup where she dumps you, 'cause that would hurt much, much more and for much, much longer.
Yes, it is. You cling to the Blue Pill myth of "the good quality girl", who would love you for who you are and follow the "emotional equity" rule, and build the relationship with you with equal efforts and emotional investment, and appreciate all your sacrifices etc. This is the BS that got you in your situation in the first place. If you don't get rid of these Blue Pill delusions, you will get into the very same situation even with the best girl of your life, the only question would be how quickly (and how painful will the breakup be).
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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You better listen to glassguy. Women thrive in a structured environment. That makes them feel safe. If a woman is incapable of this, she is unserviceable. Her damage is beyond repair.
This idea of trust is a feminine imperative manipulation. It allows a woman full access to her sexual habits.
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Hahaha. Oh it’s classic. A mind so impregnated by social conditioning that it’s frightening.
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And she would also be unable to submit, which in the long run, means the man will be a doormat and will have a weak frame. The result of all of that is this: She leaves him for a man that will put her in her place and she will submit to that new man.
Every. Time.