"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So... here I am.. wondering wtf.

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I wasnt beaten.... my wife was by her grandma... my mom was just a lazy welfare bum... made me do it all til i got sick of being my brothers parent and moved out with my wife at 17
That’s what I meant. By “beat of you” I meant a shock and awe on your masculinity. On purpose, too. It’s a way of refining genetics in the modern world, aside from securing resources. The stronger men, mentally and physically, overcome the feminization and thus get the right to breed. There’s a good section in The Red Queen, by Matt Ridley. He talks about how a woman will have sex with two different men, or more, and on purpose, for the purpose of making their sperm compete with each other, like survival of the fittest. Stronger sperm wins, gets to fertilize her egg. It’s common in apes, too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I see..... not all women are like that i bet.... but i definitely believe its common

My moms a good example of that.... 3 kids
.. 3 dads.... wtg mom... *rollls eyes*
 

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Of course she will. Its only natural.

But she will absolutely tell all her female friends what a strong man her boy turned out to be after you're kept ur manhood intact won't she?
That she will. Talks mad sh!t to her girl friends about all of her kids. It’s in a natural tone of voice, but she’s showing off under the radar, and her friends get the message. Then turns around and tells me I should settle down, even though she knows I’m never going to. It’s cyclical.
 

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I see..... not all women are like that i bet.... but i definitely believe its common
It’s biological. They will all do this. This is what I believe hypergamy is. Securing the best genetics. While mankind goes about living their lives, it’s easy to forget that evolution is still happening in the background. Modern society fvcked up the way things have been done for millennia. Granted, it was necessary thousands of years ago for the purposes of actually building civilization, but in its current form its a total clusterfvck.

EDIT: Bear in mind that I’m referring to genetics and evolution, not her nature as a woman to secure resources and ride the cawk carousel. That’s a separate topic.
 

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Well my kids are mine.. lol... they both look like me... not only that my wife was a virgin when we met... she hasnt been with anyone but me.... could be different now.. but she's so non sexual... i highly doubt it... i take transit by her place daily (live 3 blocks from her) and she works 2 blocks from my apartment... and she allows me to come over unannounced to see my son if i wanted to.... which i have done.... and has even fed me supper when i have done that... so i dont believe she has anyone at the moment... shes so unhappy with herself.... so frumpy all the time... lives in sweatpants... nvr goes out... and is a money mizer.... she hates spending money .. just like her dad... wants to always see the pile grow not deplete... not even for fun... everything has to be practical for her ...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The other option is monk mode. Just as you trim down to get the body in shape, so too you can with the libido. No porn, no on-line chasing, just go monk-mode for a while.

It doesn't mean a life-time of celibacy. What it means is you get to be in more control of your sexuality [not so thirsty], and when you are in that space you might find a better relationship develop naturally with a better quality woman.
 

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Interesting ....^^.... yeah cuz the chasing right now is terrible.... i feel like i have missed out on years of good sex so im tryin to catch up (hence a couple app fvcks already).... but i felt so empty after.... felt like why bother? ... i need to get all my toys first and keep up my exercise.... and start not giving a fuk...
 

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I hardly eat as much anymore.... venison with veggie saturated pasta sauce... and a bit of pasta is my main staple (i hunt so i have tons of venison) .... and when im hungry and dont wana eat lots i will just eat a couple hand fulls of trail mix to not feel hungry.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The other option is monk mode. Just as you trim down to get the body in shape, so too you can with the libido. No porn, no on-line chasing, just go monk-mode for a while.

It doesn't mean a life-time of celibacy. What it means is you get to be in more control of your sexuality [not so thirsty], and when you are in that space you might find a better relationship develop naturally with a better quality woman.
Not that it would matter. She’d still be female. She’d just do what women do more sanely, more controlled, but she’d still do what women do. It doesn’t change anything.
 

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He’s emphasizing the word “old”
Im still not clear on how using it on OLD implies i shoulda got lots of sex and women... musta missed something
 

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Im a pretty decent looking guy for 41.... decent shape too... been told i still look in my early to mid 30s.... with clean shave

Have to be in good shape to chase mule deer over mountains! Lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Im still not clear on how using it on OLD implies i shoulda got lots of sex and women... musta missed something
None of this has anything to do with looks, anyway. Don’t worry about it.
 

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K.... feel free to elaborate... i must be gettin old lol :p
Meaning attracting women has absolutely nothing to do with looks. Granted there’d be an initial attraction, but unless you’re also genuinely masculine her attraction will immediately drop to nothing, and you’re just another friend zoned dilbert or cuck, exploited for resources while she rides every guy that turns her on, every guy except you, maybe throw you some pvssy once in a while if she’s bored.

I want to mention that none of this is evil. This is just the way women are. It’s their biological and genetic programming. They evolved to do this.
 

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Ahh ok... i get it now... thx...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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