"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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So... here I am.. wondering wtf.

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I wasnt beaten.... my wife was by her grandma... my mom was just a lazy welfare bum... made me do it all til i got sick of being my brothers parent and moved out with my wife at 17
That’s what I meant. By “beat of you” I meant a shock and awe on your masculinity. On purpose, too. It’s a way of refining genetics in the modern world, aside from securing resources. The stronger men, mentally and physically, overcome the feminization and thus get the right to breed. There’s a good section in The Red Queen, by Matt Ridley. He talks about how a woman will have sex with two different men, or more, and on purpose, for the purpose of making their sperm compete with each other, like survival of the fittest. Stronger sperm wins, gets to fertilize her egg. It’s common in apes, too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I see..... not all women are like that i bet.... but i definitely believe its common

My moms a good example of that.... 3 kids
.. 3 dads.... wtg mom... *rollls eyes*
 

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Of course she will. Its only natural.

But she will absolutely tell all her female friends what a strong man her boy turned out to be after you're kept ur manhood intact won't she?
That she will. Talks mad sh!t to her girl friends about all of her kids. It’s in a natural tone of voice, but she’s showing off under the radar, and her friends get the message. Then turns around and tells me I should settle down, even though she knows I’m never going to. It’s cyclical.
 

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I see..... not all women are like that i bet.... but i definitely believe its common
It’s biological. They will all do this. This is what I believe hypergamy is. Securing the best genetics. While mankind goes about living their lives, it’s easy to forget that evolution is still happening in the background. Modern society fvcked up the way things have been done for millennia. Granted, it was necessary thousands of years ago for the purposes of actually building civilization, but in its current form its a total clusterfvck.

EDIT: Bear in mind that I’m referring to genetics and evolution, not her nature as a woman to secure resources and ride the cawk carousel. That’s a separate topic.
 

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Well my kids are mine.. lol... they both look like me... not only that my wife was a virgin when we met... she hasnt been with anyone but me.... could be different now.. but she's so non sexual... i highly doubt it... i take transit by her place daily (live 3 blocks from her) and she works 2 blocks from my apartment... and she allows me to come over unannounced to see my son if i wanted to.... which i have done.... and has even fed me supper when i have done that... so i dont believe she has anyone at the moment... shes so unhappy with herself.... so frumpy all the time... lives in sweatpants... nvr goes out... and is a money mizer.... she hates spending money .. just like her dad... wants to always see the pile grow not deplete... not even for fun... everything has to be practical for her ...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The other option is monk mode. Just as you trim down to get the body in shape, so too you can with the libido. No porn, no on-line chasing, just go monk-mode for a while.

It doesn't mean a life-time of celibacy. What it means is you get to be in more control of your sexuality [not so thirsty], and when you are in that space you might find a better relationship develop naturally with a better quality woman.
 

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Interesting ....^^.... yeah cuz the chasing right now is terrible.... i feel like i have missed out on years of good sex so im tryin to catch up (hence a couple app fvcks already).... but i felt so empty after.... felt like why bother? ... i need to get all my toys first and keep up my exercise.... and start not giving a fuk...
 

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I hardly eat as much anymore.... venison with veggie saturated pasta sauce... and a bit of pasta is my main staple (i hunt so i have tons of venison) .... and when im hungry and dont wana eat lots i will just eat a couple hand fulls of trail mix to not feel hungry.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The other option is monk mode. Just as you trim down to get the body in shape, so too you can with the libido. No porn, no on-line chasing, just go monk-mode for a while.

It doesn't mean a life-time of celibacy. What it means is you get to be in more control of your sexuality [not so thirsty], and when you are in that space you might find a better relationship develop naturally with a better quality woman.
Not that it would matter. She’d still be female. She’d just do what women do more sanely, more controlled, but she’d still do what women do. It doesn’t change anything.
 

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He’s emphasizing the word “old”
Im still not clear on how using it on OLD implies i shoulda got lots of sex and women... musta missed something
 

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Im a pretty decent looking guy for 41.... decent shape too... been told i still look in my early to mid 30s.... with clean shave

Have to be in good shape to chase mule deer over mountains! Lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Im still not clear on how using it on OLD implies i shoulda got lots of sex and women... musta missed something
None of this has anything to do with looks, anyway. Don’t worry about it.
 

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K.... feel free to elaborate... i must be gettin old lol :p
Meaning attracting women has absolutely nothing to do with looks. Granted there’d be an initial attraction, but unless you’re also genuinely masculine her attraction will immediately drop to nothing, and you’re just another friend zoned dilbert or cuck, exploited for resources while she rides every guy that turns her on, every guy except you, maybe throw you some pvssy once in a while if she’s bored.

I want to mention that none of this is evil. This is just the way women are. It’s their biological and genetic programming. They evolved to do this.
 

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Ahh ok... i get it now... thx...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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