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For the more, um, Mature among us...the dreaded ED!

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Yup. Endocrine workup last week. VA so waiting on results. Also he changed to the T gel. More stable levels more energy, more frisky ;)
Lol yeah cuz that stuff needs to be applied very day. Makes sense. Good. Enjoy it :)
 
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Ok guys, this is not for you young guys who can get wood at any time. This is for us who have alot of years on the clock. So for the first time in my lengthy existence I am going through a period of performance issues. And let me share this, it is rather devastating. Been with this woman a number of years. She is 20 years younger...and a redhead. Lately she is ready, but alas it is hit and miss for me. Tried generic little blue pill. Gave me a hell of a headache and not much else. Then tried a Cialis sample. Worked great in AM, but nothing the night before. So my question to the group, besides an implant (Where is Richard the frog when you need him!), has anyone had experience with anything else that can reliably give erection on demand? She has been cool about it but this sh*t needs to stop...or start I guess. And no I am not asking for a friend. Thanks in advance.

I experienced it at age 54. It can be defeated. Look for places like this. https://www.okiemensclinic.com/ They aren't cheap, but they can repair you. For me it's testosterone pellets installed every four months. In March my level was a little too high at 1253 total testosterone. Last week they took a half pint of blood from me because by blood was a little too thick, which causes circulation difficulty in small blood vessels such as those in the penis. It also puts you at risk for stroke. So, exercise and donate blood.

I also purchased the injections that get you hard and keep you that way for a couple of hours. I haven't needed them in a year or so. I used them occasionally for a few months when a strange thing happened, which the clinic told me would happen. These injections are like yoga for the penis. They cause it to become engorged with blood thereby stretching and exercising long underused tissues which strengthens them and improves circulation. I purchased 80 injections and still have 64 remaining. Now I use one maybe once a month on a weekend when I and my girlfriend want to engage in some marathon sex, and to keep everything stretched and working well.
 

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Ok guys, this is not for you young guys who can get wood at any time. This is for us who have alot of years on the clock. So for the first time in my lengthy existence I am going through a period of performance issues. And let me share this, it is rather devastating. Been with this woman a number of years. She is 20 years younger...and a redhead. Lately she is ready, but alas it is hit and miss for me. Tried generic little blue pill. Gave me a hell of a headache and not much else. Then tried a Cialis sample. Worked great in AM, but nothing the night before. So my question to the group, besides an implant (Where is Richard the frog when you need him!), has anyone had experience with anything else that can reliably give erection on demand? She has been cool about it but this sh*t needs to stop...or start I guess. And no I am not asking for a friend. Thanks in advance.

LOL.....looks like I could've written this... I use cialis now but on the dlow so my wife don't know. Other than that, I blame it on whiskey ****. On top of mild ED issues (it can get hard without any pills but if i lose focus it gets softer) it's getting very tough to finish. So now, 75% of the time, I don't even ***. Wait til you get to that stage...fun fun!! NOT.

In any case, i've noticed cialis last for at least 24 hours. Try it again and see what happens. Also, I noticed that as I get older, my mind controls my **** more than anything else. When I was younger, it was all about touch and feel.
 

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LOL.....looks like I could've written this... I use cialis now but on the dlow so my wife don't know. Other than that, I blame it on whiskey ****. On top of mild ED issues (it can get hard without any pills but if i lose focus it gets softer) it's getting very tough to finish. So now, 75% of the time, I don't even ***. Wait til you get to that stage...fun fun!! NOT.

In any case, i've noticed cialis last for at least 24 hours. Try it again and see what happens. Also, I noticed that as I get older, my mind controls my **** more than anything else. When I was younger, it was all about touch and feel.
Tdawg. How is your:
1. Body fat %? Abs or gut?
2. Stress?
3. Drinking levels?
4. Fapping to porn?
5. Wife physique still turns you on?
6. Are you physically active?
7. Do you do traditional masculine activites such as hunting, fishing, fixing things, guns. etc?

In my life it is harder when i have stress piled on me or the wife or gf makes a bunch of hurdles to get the sex...

It works best if she always desires to please me and stays sexy. Bossy and controlling wives are boner killers.
 

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Tdawg. How is your:
1. Body fat %? Abs or gut?
2. Stress?
3. Drinking levels?
4. Fapping to porn?
5. Wife physique still turns you on?
6. Are you physically active?
7. Do you do traditional masculine activites such as hunting, fishing, fixing things, guns. etc?

In my life it is harder when i have stress piled on me or the wife or gf makes a bunch of hurdles to get the sex...

It works best if she always desires to please me and stays sexy. Bossy and controlling wives are boner killers.
1. that's me in the picture. Always been lean and fit my whole life.
2. pretty much no stress for now. life can get hectic at work at times but home life is simple. Wife takes care of the house and kids and all I do is get to play with the kids and have fun with them.
3. I drink a pint of rum per night with coke but that goes from 7 pm - 10:00 pm
4. fap to porn probably once a week, used to be more but lately promised the wife I wouldn't after it started to get in between our sex life.
5. yes, wife is good to go in every way
6. yes, physically active with kids and gym
7. no, i don't have time for anything other than with family. Very few friends and hang out with the family mostly and work people.

wife makes no hurdles at all to get sex, she is ready to go whenever. I'm more of the problem. In our 14 yrs of marriage, I can't think of a single time where she has bitched or complained about me. Definitely not bossy or controlling; she is very feminine and girly.

My hands have been getting red lately, like blood is not getting there. I had it checked and my doctor said my veins are okay, but my capillaries are not good. He didn't seemed concerned though. I dont' know if that is the issue or it's just me getting older.
 

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1. that's me in the picture. Always been lean and fit my whole life.
2. pretty much no stress for now. life can get hectic at work at times but home life is simple. Wife takes care of the house and kids and all I do is get to play with the kids and have fun with them.
3. I drink a pint of rum per night with coke but that goes from 7 pm - 10:00 pm
4. fap to porn probably once a week, used to be more but lately promised the wife I wouldn't after it started to get in between our sex life.
5. yes, wife is good to go in every way
6. yes, physically active with kids and gym
7. no, i don't have time for anything other than with family. Very few friends and hang out with the family mostly and work people.

wife makes no hurdles at all to get sex, she is ready to go whenever. I'm more of the problem. In our 14 yrs of marriage, I can't think of a single time where she has bitched or complained about me. Definitely not bossy or controlling; she is very feminine and girly.

My hands have been getting red lately, like blood is not getting there. I had it checked and my doctor said my veins are okay, but my capillaries are not good. He didn't seemed concerned though. I dont' know if that is the issue or it's just me getting older.
Take out the pt of rum for three weeks. You wont die. Drink 1/2 your body weight ounces worth of water daily. So if you weigh 200lb drink 100oz. Im curious to how you perform with alcohol out the system.

Also suggest your wife occasionally initiate.

Alcohol cause whisky dyck on many of us. One pint is enough to cause it. Plus it decreases circulation and decreases free testosterone.
 

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I hear ya and it's all great advice that I think is spot on. The problem is that I can't stop drinking. I tried a few time and was miserable. My whole family drinks, my mom, dad, brother...every night, more than me. They call me the"lightweight".

I look forward to my drink and hot tub run every night. It's how I relax. I even got my wife to join me so now made her an alcoholic...lol (which sucks for her and I feel bad but she enjoys herself as well and we get along great)

my wife is horrible at initiating and it's cringe worthy. Her idea of initiating is "so i guess we are never having sex again", or " so are we going to do it or not? or my personal favorite, "I guess your not attracted to me anymore". It's that bad. She's a girly girl type and thinks a man should be the one to initiate. I happen to agree.
 

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That is for hair loss, not ED
Yes sir. He mentioned he was on Propecia in one of his posts. It’s been proven to lower your libido and softer erections. Didn’t feel like writing it all out so I just posted the word Propecia assuming he would know what I was talking about. Lol. That stuff messes with your mojo.
 

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I hear ya and it's all great advice that I think is spot on. The problem is that I can't stop drinking. I tried a few time and was miserable. My whole family drinks, my mom, dad, brother...every night, more than me. They call me the"lightweight".

I look forward to my drink and hot tub run every night. It's how I relax. I even got my wife to join me so now made her an alcoholic...lol (which sucks for her and I feel bad but she enjoys herself as well and we get along great)

my wife is horrible at initiating and it's cringe worthy. Her idea of initiating is "so i guess we are never having sex again", or " so are we going to do it or not? or my personal favorite, "I guess your not attracted to me anymore". It's that bad. She's a girly girl type and thinks a man should be the one to initiate. I happen to agree.
I was just saying for the three week experiment. Another thing to play with is add 3-5 days of at least 30 minutes of cardio to increase blood circulation.

On me even 1/2 pints makes my erections noticeably weaker.

If you cant do 3 weeks just try one. Im just curious in the difference in your "EQ" ( erection quality ).
 

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For libido and general mood, proviron. Very safe TRT, very low or no sided effects. Does not shutdown... at resonable dosage. taken orally, no needle. relatively cheep. Only for low T issues, if other physical issues it will not solve, although a much higher libido might over ride some minor other issues. If useing this one, must be doing lifting/running to stay healthy.
 

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I absolutely think giving up drinking, even for a few days, would make my EQ a lot better, and also help out with a myriad of other issues, however, one must consider opportunity cost. And for me at least, i'll take the weaker erections for a few drinks at night. I do do cardio daily, but only run one mile on the treadmill to warm up for my workout.
 

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I absolutely think giving up drinking, even for a few days, would make my EQ a lot better, and also help out with a myriad of other issues, however, one must consider opportunity cost. And for me at least, i'll take the weaker erections for a few drinks at night. I do do cardio daily, but only run one mile on the treadmill to warm up for my workout.
What laying off the sauce for 3-4 days? Youll get fuller erections and more explosive ejaculation.
 
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