You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
2-3 times per week
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Minimum 3 days/no more than 5.
4-6 x a week plus mma classses. I am looking to get my duet on point over xmas and be shredded for Spring. Look at a solid cut.Study shows that a lack of exercise is one of the main culprits of bad health. How much do you exercise?
No kidding, man. Once the devil gets in you, you can't let him fester.I have to laugh when people say they don't have the time for exorcise.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Over training isn't a myth. Most people who think it is are on the juice or just flat out ignorant.5 days per week in the gym is exceptionally demanding and will maintain/ lead to a great physique, but I personally believe that "overtraining" is largely a myth. I am always better pushing my mind and body beyond "limitations." The more exercise the better. Our bodies are way more capable than we think.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your ego is so big you wanna post pics online of each others bodies to prove a point?I'm shredded and muscular and I have the pics to back it up. Physique was built 100% naturally BTW. 5xs a week training with weights/6-7 days a week cardio.
Do you have pics? (Don't recall your posting any).
A lot. Been bodybuilding (for lack of a better term) for the past 13 years. And take martial arts 5-6 days per week. I also kayak to unwind.Study shows that a lack of exercise is one of the main culprits of bad health. How much do you exercise?
Study shows that a lack of exercise is one of the main culprits of bad health. How much do you exercise?
doesn't all that running with a back pack mess up your knees?3 times a week at the gym and one day of minimum 4 mile hump with full pack (65-80 lbs)
I adjust it based on my energy levels.
Heavy dead lifts, one day of deadmill sprints, upper body or squats depending how much the deadlifts took out of me in an earlier day.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.