"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tinder for newbies

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So last monday I had some time to kill. I was chilling in my couch and downloaded tinder just for kicks. I was in the mood to try a few things.

My opener with by far most replies was when I only wrote: "Avengers or Game of Thrones?" From 30+ matches only one or two didn't respond.

Only one bitter b1tch reponded "Neither". She seemed stoic which I think can be great for men but in women is a turn off for me so I didn't reply to her anymore.

One or two responded "Avengers". The rest either responded "GoT" or "Both".

So then this next part has worked 100% for me so far to get the digits: When they reponded "GoT" or "Both", my second text was "Great. We should exchange memes from last night's episode on whatsapp. 8xx xxx xx xx"

100% reached to me through WhatsApp. Not bad.

Too bad GoT is ending next sunday but if newbies or some of you want to use this, it should work with whatever movie/TVshow is generating the most memes that week. Cool.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Worst case scenario I guess. Just thought newbies might eventually find this post and it'll help them get some digits.
 

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You meet HB 7-10 in a party/club and bang her that same night whitout ever getting the digits in the first place. Cool. Most of us in this forum been there at least once but nice to know you guys do it as recently and as often as the newbies dream of.

A humble observation for newbies who might see this post in the future: If you are looking for LTR (which many members of this forum preach against, and with good reason) instead of just spinning 3 or more beautiful plates, Guess what? If she opened her legs to anyone the day she met him, no digits needed, chances are she is not LTR material.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dust 2 Dust

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I downloaded the app. for the first time a week ago and so far its rubbish. Tinder has 3 fatal flaws. 1. Allowing women to link their instagram accounts. This ends with a lot of women using the app to get instagram followers. 2. The app does a terrible job removing scam/ bots. 3. The algorithm used to match people is very poor. Average looking guys have to pay for boosts otherwise the top stack is monopolized by Chads.
 
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