"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's stuff like this that turns me off from women

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Her friends had printed out photos of her that she had taken on instagram that year and put them up for display, like selfies, modeling looking photos, etc.
Dude, do you want a girl or a guy with breasts?

For me, all that is absolutely normal, given that she has any interests in life except Instagram.
 

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@sangheilios your threads include such emphasised negative focus on women and their habits.

It is already common consensus that our society is plagued with sickness, this sickness is present in both genders. Is this answer the validation you seek in your comments? Do you want to hear you deserve a unicorn because of how you are able to observe some undesirable women?

I suggest you relax and focus on more productive activities (such as meeting a higher volume of women) rather than psychoanalysing girls you have little investment in.
I already do engage in productive activities (working out/taking care of myself, making money, investments, learning, building career/future, etc.).
Females FOLLOWING their husbands if its a good deal is not "bad" at all.
When a woman is in a relationship with a man and she does not have any beliefs or opinions of her own then she is pathetic. I'm not saying she needs to be argumentative, but imagine where she is literally incapable of anything that isn't from her bf's or husband's mouth lol

I grew up abused in a divorced household because of this weak female nature. My mother remarried and it was literally all about her relationship with my stepfather, simply out of the inability and fear of being alone. The best part was the guy was a complete freeloader, as he didn't provide any financial benefit towards the household and literally did nothing beneficial at all.
 

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OMG she has pics of herself taken from an iPhone and posted to Instagram

You guys sound like f4gs
Huh? Did you even read the post? You think it's normal for a girl's friends to print out pictures of her selfies and put them all up for her birthday?
 

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Huh? Did you even read the post? You think it's normal for a girl's friends to print out pictures of her selfies and put them all up for her birthday?
Yeah, pretty normal, girls like attention and if this girl is hot then they will celebrate that, why do you even care?

Everyone in this thread going into meltdown does not understand women and (not surprisingly) are the guys that post many incel threads about not having luck with women.

Look at the back patting on page one, you guys are just as bad as these vacuous women you bitter fools.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is a really pretty latina I know here in my area who recently had her 25th birthday. Anyway, I saw pictures of her birthday celebration and what I saw was shocking to me. Her friends had printed out photos of her that she had taken on instagram that year and put them up for display, like selfies, modeling looking photos, etc. It was actually kind of creepy that they did this and to say the least it was a bit concerning. After seeing that it all made sense, she is being groomed into becoming a spoiled princess by her friends, and not necessarily by her parents or family. What's even more concerning is the fact that she is well out of high school, something like this you'd expect from a 16 year old, but 25?
That's terrible. She should have used facebook instead of instagram. What is this world coming to?>
 

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She's a massive attention ***** and regularly leads tons of guys on, whilst also being in relationships. She's been in a relationship with 3 guys over the past 6 months but would still actively lead other men on.
And of course you are upset because you aren't banging her. Par for the course.
 

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And of course you are upset because you aren't banging her. Par for the course.
Huh? This woman is in her mid 20s and behaves like a 14 year old. I don't get why you see this type of behavior as normal or acceptable.
 

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Huh? This woman is in her mid 20s and behaves like a 14 year old. I don't get why you see this type of behavior as normal or acceptable.
Dude over 50% of them never leave highschool. Its very normal.

You need to learn how to interact with and fvck these types or leave them alone. But dont complain
 

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Huh? This woman is in her mid 20s and behaves like a 14 year old. I don't get why you see this type of behavior as normal or acceptable.
You spent time and posted a thread about her and now act like you wouldn't pound that pvssy if she threw it at you...yeah OK bro.


If you cant change behavior then why worry about it? Control what you can control. Too many guys spend time worrying about stuff they have no chance of changing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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They pretty much all do that. If cell phones and instagram were around 50 years ago, they'd still do the same ****. I get what you mean and feel you on disliking chicks that are super self absorbed but there's no real escaping this one. I would be more critical if she were over 30 and behaving like a teenager.
 

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You spent time and posted a thread about her and now act like you wouldn't pound that pvssy if she threw it at you...yeah OK bro.


If you cant change behavior then why worry about it? Control what you can control. Too many guys spend time worrying about stuff they have no chance of changing.
I'm not saying I wouldn't lol. The fact that there are fully grown adult women that are acting like this is a bit problematic, as I feel this behavior should be out grown by around 21 or so, though really it should be younger.
They pretty much all do that. If cell phones and instagram were around 50 years ago, they'd still do the same ****. I get what you mean and feel you on disliking chicks that are super self absorbed but there's no real escaping this one. I would be more critical if she were over 30 and behaving like a teenager.
That's a good point, but there definitely are women in that age range who are just as bad.
 

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the point most people here are tying to make @sangheilios is that why waste time and energy understanding someone elses behavior, especially one that you have no investment in. i may not be the best with women but one thing ive learned in my "journey" is not to waste time and energy on things that don't aline with your life. You may be alone but at least your happy with your life.
 
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