Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why dont i aknowledge females?

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I went to a family gathering last night. Where there was lots of females. For some.reason i only said hello and goodbye to the males. I never aknowledged a female there. Its like i didnt even want to notice them unless there was a romantic prospect there etc: whats the underlying cause of this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I went to a family gathering last night. Where there was lots of females. For some.reason i only said hello and goodbye to the males. I never aknowledged a female there. Its like i didnt even want to notice them unless there was a romantic prospect there etc: whats the underlying cause of this?
Alpha. Your not wasting time on females who arent giving choosing signals.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Understood.

Back to your question...

I agree with Mr. Goodstuff, but I will add one other possible angle...

Sometimes, in a twisted sort of way, it is a lot of fun to ignore women and only talk to guys. Can we call it "reverse-attention-whoring?" Or maybe "ignoring-whoring*" lol?

Additionally, with guys, you can (usually) let your guard down and just be yourself. Typically, talking to women is WORK, and talking to guys is easy/chill. Not sure how else to say it.

*Extroverts sometimes attention-*****. Us introverts sometimes ignore-***** lol.
 
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@Mike32ct so not aknowleding a female in a room by saying hello and goodbye is alpha? I was talking to them between that. But never said hello or goodbye lol. How is this alpha exactly?
 

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I went to a family gathering last night. Where there was lots of females. For some.reason i only said hello and goodbye to the males. I never aknowledged a female there. Its like i didnt even want to notice them unless there was a romantic prospect there etc: whats the underlying cause of this?
You're growing up, that's what Alpha males do
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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@Mike32ct so not aknowleding a female in a room by saying hello and goodbye is alpha? I was talking to them between that. But never said hello or goodbye lol. How is this alpha exactly?
There are two schools of thought in social situations.

1. Some guys like to "work the room" and basically introduce themselves and talk to everybody, male, female, etc. Acknowledge and talk to as many people as you reasonably can.

2. Be efficient and targeted. Only talk to who you want to talk to. Maybe a female giving you choosing signals or guys that you know are cool.

Either method can be alpha if it fits your personality.
 

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@Focal core but how is this? One girl even got up from her seat when i was leaving got right in my face and said goodbye then asked if she could give me a hug lol
You see Alpha males trait is always desired by women, they're most sought after males in females world, they can sense the trait even unconsciously.
 

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Its like i didnt even want to notice them unless there was a romantic prospect there etc: whats the underlying cause of this?
You are angry they are not giving you attention, love and respect; similar to a movie star getting paid millions to have sex in screen with the new actress.

So instead of chatting them up, making them relaxed, and getting their number, your attitude is “f-ck these b-tches. If they don’t give me love, I’m going to overcompensate and ignore them all.” There is a part of you that wants to punch them too because you are so angry.

Just go the gym, it’s the answer to everything.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You are angry they are not giving you attention, love and respect; similar to a movie star getting paid millions to have sex in screen with the new actress.

So instead of chatting them up, making them relaxed, and getting their number, your attitude is “f-ck these b-tches. If they don’t give me love, I’m going to overcompensate and ignore them all.” There is a part of you that wants to punch them too because you are so angry.

Just go the gym, it’s the answer to everything.
Huh? Im not angry i was having a great time lol
 

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The only thing i didnt like was i gave her the one armed hug and she patted my back lol
Hahahaha, patted back huh, just smile and be friendly. You just didn't know yet how much attention the real Alpha males get everyday.. They almost have to run or avoid from girls each day.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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