"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl says I feel lonely but has boyfriend

Pajeet Singh

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So there is one girl with whom I have to do project work and we sit in a room. There are couple of other kids but they move around so we have been talking for long time now. She started sharing her ****. When I ask her what is the bugs you she says "I feel lonely all the time". She has a boyfriend but here she is talking about her loneliness and problems with boyfriend with me. What is this ****ing thing?
Where do I stand? Why do girls talk about their boyfriend with someone else and tell they are lonely and whatnot. What is the significance of this? Why can't she just switch her boyfriend and stop bothering someone.
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She feels lonely because her boyfriend isn't a good emotional support. She talks about it to others kind of like asking for help, hoping someone else will give her what she lacks or give her motivation to end it and move on.

The reason she's not switching her boyfriend is because he's better than being alone. She wants someone better to switch to before leaving him.

Maybe her telling you this means she thinks you're better, but you might not be the only one she has vented her frustrations to, so don't feel too special about it.

Not sure what the picture is about, you never explained it. Is it the woman you're talking about?
 

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She's interested.

In making him her bff...
Bff..... obviously want every men wants.



Should not give her attention she wants some more orbiters to fulfill her validation needs
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She wants you to be an emotional tampon beta orbiter.

She's a time waster attention wh0re.

Second place is first loser.

Next time, say you don't want to hear any more of her bf problems unless you're sucking my dik. See what she says then. You'll either become alpha or useless. Better than beta orbiter any day.

Case closed.
 

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She wants you to be an emotional tampon beta orbiter.

She's a time waster attention wh0re.

Second place is first loser.

Next time, say you don't want to hear any more of her bf problems unless you're sucking my dik. See what she says then. You'll either become alpha or useless. Better than beta orbiter any day.

Case closed.
I agree. Problem is we spend our day together. Explicitly telling her to suck my dik would not be good. I need to figure out higher level seduction technique to make her say it to me herself or devise a plan to smoothly detach from her his and byes.
 
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