"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Question about the friend zone

niceguytoalphamale

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Hi guys and gals. The HB9 I've been seeing we became exclusive last night. Her and I had a bit of a heated debate.. anyways she gave this white knight her cell number. On facebook she is thanking all her friends for their support when she needs them.. due to me having a debate with her ha! Anyhow this white knight told her on facebook call him anytime.. I'm guessing she called him and pretty much blew his ears off about me lol.. now with the friend zone once you are a "friend" who listens to their problems about other guys are you pretty much f***ed?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jaymbrs

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Hi guys and gals. The HB9 I've been seeing we became exclusive last night. Her and I had a bit of a heated debate.. anyways she gave this white knight her cell number. On facebook she is thanking all her friends for their support when she needs them.. due to me having a debate with her ha! Anyhow this white knight told her on facebook call him anytime.. I'm guessing she called him and pretty much blew his ears off about me lol.. now with the friend zone once you are a "friend" who listens to their problems about other guys are you pretty much f***ed?
Not if you stick around long enough. I've graduated from the friend zone to sleeping with them plenty of times. All it took was to just be available at the right time.
 

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Friend zone means next. Means she's jumping on ****kkk and not yours.
 

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Well, let’s say you really like the chick but you’re in the friend zone. Listen to her stuff for some time then cut her off, then take her out for a drink or two and start sending her signs that you see her a sexzual partner. If she denies, you move on. SIMPLE.
 

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Well, let’s say you really like the chick but you’re in the friend zone. Listen to her stuff for some time then cut her off, then take her out for a drink or two and start sending her signs that you see her a sexzual partner. If she denies, you move on. SIMPLE.
Spend time where they are putting out. Hanging around otherwise makes you a thirsty ***** beggar. Those guys hardly get crumbs. The world of women reward those who gets rewarded. So treat yourself great.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The last girl I was seeing got with one of her guy friends after blowing me off. I knew she was fond of him, but never considered him a threat because I never thought she’d be attracted to him. It didn’t last, but he sure did climb out of the friendzone for a few weeks. Probably laid in her arms and whined to her about his problems.
 

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Hi guys and gals. The HB9 I've been seeing we became exclusive last night. Her and I had a bit of a heated debate.. anyways she gave this white knight her cell number. On facebook she is thanking all her friends for their support when she needs them.. due to me having a debate with her ha! Anyhow this white knight told her on facebook call him anytime.. I'm guessing she called him and pretty much blew his ears off about me lol.. now with the friend zone once you are a "friend" who listens to their problems about other guys are you pretty much f***ed?
Usually true, but big red flag that she runs to him like that. She's already emotionally cheating on you
 

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Lack of respect, not acceptable.
And you cant stand her family.


NEXT!!! nothling else to say
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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@lamath I'll just bang her and walk out the door. She already perceives me as higher value I know this for a fact and I am higher value. Since she is acting low value I'll treat her like it. No cuddles after sex or staying the night bang and walk out. That should do the trick
 

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@lamath I'll just bang her and walk out the door. She already perceives me as higher value I know this for a fact and I am higher value. Since she is acting low value I'll treat her like it. No cuddles after sex or staying the night bang and walk out. That should do the trick
Not sure i would handle it like that, even witht he disrespect.

But you shoud definitely go the Next Route sooner than later, seems like she is not ltr material.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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@lamath Your a bit of a female male psychology reader judging by your comments etc: why did I turn down sex with a HB9 that's not normal lol
Id turn down sex when i see the women is lacking enthusiasm or i am not attracted to her.

Not sure how turning sex down affect a women,
 

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@lamath it's the first girl I've turned down for sex and she is a beauty queen.. hb9 no chit. I just can't be bothered I don't know what's wrong with me 90 percent of guys would jump in that bed at the first sign. Not me.i just don't care lol
 

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@lamath it's the first girl I've turned down for sex and she is a beauty queen.. hb9 no chit. I just can't be bothered I don't know what's wrong with me 90 percent of guys would jump in that bed at the first sign. Not me.i just don't care lol
Probably cause you see their games from a mile away and get repulsed. You may need to be drunk or high.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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