How come I don't detect interest from women?

[Mrpua]

sometimes (most of the time? all the time?) when I talk to a girl, I don't detect any interest.

If I were a girl and there was a guy I liked, I would get self conscious around him. I don't detect any level of self-consciousness from girls that I talk to. No signs of being nervous.

I would also expect her to ask ME some questions. This almost never happens (maybe happened once):
me: "What do you do?" girl: "I am a nurse. What do YOU do?"
I always intentionally stay quiet to give her an opportunity to ask a question. but she doesn't

I dont know if there is no interest there or I am just not detecting it.

 

[corrector]

sometimes (most of the time? all the time?) when I talk to a girl, I don't detect any interest.

If I were a girl and there was a guy I liked, I would get self conscious around him. I don't detect any level of self-consciousness from girls that I talk to. No signs of being nervous.

I would also expect her to ask ME some questions. This almost never happens (maybe happened once):
me: "What do you do?" girl: "I am a nurse. What do YOU do?"
I always intentionally stay quiet to give her an opportunity to ask a question. but she doesn't

I dont know if there is no interest there or I am just not detecting it.

Are you an incel?

 

[Serenity]

Given the abundance of guys approaching women compared to the opposite I'd say women are more used to talking to guys than the other way around. From that we can deduce that being nervous around the opposite sex is a more common response from men. So your logic that "women should be nervous if they're attracted" isn't sound. You're better off looking at proximity, how physically close they are to you, which direction they're facing and which direction they're moving (away or towards you).

Some women with a few select personalities may exhibit nervousness if they find you very attractive, but I wouldn't count on this attribute as a reliable IOI.

 

[lamath]

Mmm id look at body language 1st dont even need to talk to them to see interest.

Check youtube lots of video on this.

Id also recommend Joe Navarro books

 

[Medina]

Women get nervous around crackheads & weirdos

You don't have to make them feel like this

If you're a centred confident guy this will actually make women feel SAFE & happy

 

[Tilex]

Learn the difference between warm & cold approaches.

It sounds like you're cold approaching women without an invitation.
Believe it or not, that's an uphill battle. She won't be receptive to you because you're trying to win her over. It puts her on a pedestal.

Warm approaching is when she's sending positive signals to you, inviting you to talk to her. These type of women are far more receptive to your advances.

 

[corrector]

You need to BE interesting to lure them. You do that by looking great, being proficient in your job, earning good money and not giving them interest for free. Tbh not giving a phuck about them.

Being aloof and self-concentrated, obsessed by your own success-story, egoistical is the way to

Like BigDave17 has all these attributes.