"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why does my Ex get jealous when she sees me with hickies, even after one year of breaking up. Specially, when she was the one breaking it off???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why does my Ex get jealous when she sees me with hickies, even after one year of breaking up. Specially, when she was the one breaking it off???
Imo.
You should not care at all and that what you should tell her.

Total indifference.


Might not be easy but after 1 year its time to.move on.
 

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same reason mine get pissed when I delete them from my social media.
 

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I’ve moved on, but it’s fxckin hilarious.
Imo.
You should not care at all and that what you should tell her.

Total indifference.


Might not be easy but after 1 year its time to.move on.
I’ve moved on, but it’s fxckin’ hilarious.
 

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I’ve moved on, but it’s fxckin hilarious.


I’ve moved on, but it’s fxckin’ hilarious.
It is!!!
Breaking up then piss you hook up.with someone, its like pissing agaist the wind.lolllll
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Why does my Ex get jealous when she sees me with hickies, even after one year of breaking up. Specially, when she was the one breaking it off???
She has nothing going on in her life and you've also moved on. The ladies do not like seeing a man they were with doing better than they are doing. When I ran into an ex with a new lady, they were always staring and making faces. Then again, I've never had an friendly break, so there you go.
 

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It's because finding a man is super hard, going on dates and fcking is not. A lot of men do the same thing with women, and it's predictable and boring for her.
 

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Women like to keep 4 or 5 guys on hold. The friendzone isn't just for friends - it's for past and potential lovers too.

Ever hear the "I hope we can still be friends" conversation?

When one of these SLAVES dares to leave her circle or moves on, it triggers a response

It's actually hauntingly evil when you think about it
 

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A lot of women don’t understand how in demand you are too. Just because you might have made some beta mistakes and acted all nice to her to kill her attraction, she doesn’t think no one else will want you because she lost attraction for you. Women make this mistake with me which is why so many come back to me down the road but then I’m nothing like I was before. When a girl dumps me she’s replaced within a week, 2 at most. My last time I was dumped I’d gone on 4 dates in 2 weeks and added 2 plates to my rotation. Put up pics with two of them on social media. Women think just because you’re nice that you’re going to stand outside their house for months begging them back while crying in the rain. Nope, you get rid of me and I’m gone, I get over women FAST. I’ve had to learn that but it’s helped save me a lot of trouble.
 

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A lot of women don’t understand how in demand you are too. Just because you might have made some beta mistakes and acted all nice to her to kill her attraction, she doesn’t think no one else will want you because she lost attraction for you. Women make this mistake with me which is why so many come back to me down the road but then I’m nothing like I was before. When a girl dumps me she’s replaced within a week, 2 at most. My last time I was dumped I’d gone on 4 dates in 2 weeks and added 2 plates to my rotation. Put up pics with two of them on social media. Women think just because you’re nice that you’re going to stand outside their house for months begging them back while crying in the rain. Nope, you get rid of me and I’m gone, I get over women FAST. I’ve had to learn that but it’s helped save me a lot of trouble.
Aren't you the one who made a post about recurring oneitis? Just kiddin' bro I feel you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aren't you the one who made a post about recurring oneitis? Just kiddin' bro I feel you
Yep and it’s happened twice in the last 4 years, before that it was all the way back in highschool. I’m not saying my game is perfect but what I have perfected is when I’m done I’m done. Oneitis or not. I still make tons of mistakes but now where I would hang on too long for months if not years to the hopes of a girl coming around, I walk away within weeks or most time days now. I think it makes it easier because I know I can meet women so easily that I won’t be sitting around bored with my thoughts.
 

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I figured the chick knows that she lost someone good and that I can game chicks.
 

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I figured the chick knows that she lost someone good and that I can game chicks.
That’s exactly it. I might not be the alpha that plays games that gets your emotions all revved up, but NEVER think you are ALL I can get just because I’m treating you well. I don’t have to act like I have options to make you jealous, I know I’m the back of my mind I have options and if you’re stupid enough to push me away you’ll find out just how many options I have. I’m in HIGH demand, I just don’t need to tell her, I’ll let her figure it out on her own when it’s too late.
 

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That’s exactly it. I might not be the alpha that plays games that gets your emotions all revved up, but NEVER think you are ALL I can get just because I’m treating you well. I don’t have to act like I have options to make you jealous, I know I’m the back of my mind I have options and if you’re stupid enough to push me away you’ll find out just how many options I have. I’m in HIGH demand, I just don’t need to tell her, I’ll let her figure it out on her own when it’s too late.
LOL the last time that happened I saw my ex get angry. She didn’t say anything though, her expression said it all
 

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LOL the last time that happened I saw my ex get angry. She didn’t say anything though, her expression said it all
I mean how damn dumb can women be? Just because some broad has been treated bad all her life and has gotten to where she likes it, then someone comes along and isn’t that big of a **** to her 24/7 she gets bored and thinks “well if I am not attracted to him and want him, no one else will”. Ha! True, women don’t want the nice guy with no balls BUT there’s a lot of women that want a guy that can keep them guessing but doesn’t have to be a jackass all the time too. Like I said, I’m in HIGH demand. Hell I had to stop at those 4 dates I’d lined up in those 2 weeks because I didn’t have enough time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It only takes that ONE beta move these days, and chicks take that opportunity to go ride new dik.

Your game might be solid for years, maybe your going through some personal chit, maybe you lost your job..

You self esteem has dropped a little.. That girl will drop your ass quick.

It's not even worth getting emotionally involved with these modern day woman.. Just keep the emotions out.. Give them the illusion of a relationship.

Keep banging.. And just accept, one day that chick will be gone.
 

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It only takes that ONE beta move these days, and chicks take that opportunity to go ride new dik.

Your game might be solid for years, maybe your going through some personal chit, maybe you lost your job..

You self esteem has dropped a little.. That girl will drop your ass quick.

It's not even worth getting emotionally involved with these modern day woman.. Just keep the emotions out.. Give them the illusion of a relationship.

Keep banging.. And just accept, one day that chick will be gone.
Just yesterday a young girl at work dropped a guy she was seeing - because he sent a selfie of himself at work

You could see the look of disgust in her face. She described it as "desperate beyond belief"
 

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I would more then likely ask how would she know, since you shouldn't have any contact with her.

but to give you a answers, same reason as always, you are showing you are better without her, her ego was hit hard, no woman can take hits on her ego, so when you show you moved on, and possible before her, she will get pissed,

"how you dare being better without me, I was the best thing it could happen in your life, in any men life";
that is the line of thinking from a woman, and when you break her
 

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I would more then likely ask how would she know, since you shouldn't have any contact with her.

but to give you a answers, same reason as always, you are showing you are better without her, her ego was hit hard, no woman can take hits on her ego, so when you show you moved on, and possible before her, she will get pissed,

"how you dare being better without me, I was the best thing it could happen in your life, in any men life";
that is the line of thinking from a woman, and when you break her
Well it not only hits their ego but they start wondering what they missed about you that the new girl saw and why it took no time for you to meet someone else. Women honestly think when they dump you or kick you to the curb that no one else will want you, or at least no one prettier than them. This is why I never delete ex’s on social media! They can delete me if they want but if they decide to keep me on social media then get ready for the show.
 

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I would more then likely ask how would she know, since you shouldn't have any contact with her.

but to give you a answers, same reason as always, you are showing you are better without her, her ego was hit hard, no woman can take hits on her ego, so when you show you moved on, and possible before her, she will get pissed,

"how you dare being better without me, I was the best thing it could happen in your life, in any men life";
that is the line of thinking from a woman, and when you break her
She is my coworker... lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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