That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
its not giving up
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So you're a puzzyluster, big deal.
Would you be kind enough to put me on Ignore? I´d really appreciatte it man. Thanks in advance.
I'll be interest in hearing how old are you, I'm 38. Perhaps it has to do something with our age, sht, did we hit a wall or something??
Why are you so emotional? I was just teething your ass.
Can I really adivce you if I am just like you? We are hitting the wall dude, no more no less. It is what we achieved so far, what we have so far, we are near end....................Why the fck don't we have children, is usually a question by usually women with children......
u lost virginity at age 29? :O
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I jerked off before you did, wanna bet?? Mother fr.
A lot of people do. Not just you. Find LTR prior, otherwise you are left with left overs. As you can imagine, fck that. I am at the moment only looking for ONS. ))))) niggah!!
so you had first sex as 30 year old and drank first beer when? 35?
Trust me, it's much better than desiring to fck an indian woman. In fact, fcking an indian woman is like fcking a chimpanze on an african safari, you driving in a jeep, or land rover, I have no clue, and you tell the guide I want to fck, and he offers you a chimpanzi. By the way the song is about being raised by a single mother. Whoever wants lyrics, message, it's a hit.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
