What’s an alpha widow? I’ve heard the term but wasn’t sure what it meant.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Major Red flags in women. Feel free to add or disagree
- Thread starter darktriadism
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
R
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Yeah. That’s a good read. Accurate. Which is why I get so frustrated when supposedly red pilled men are still comparing women to THEIR moral code that they grew up with or formed as an idealization.
Passive men cling so desperately to that idealized version of how she should be loyal and loving no matter how he presents himself.
When he can’t have that he becomes angry or denigrates women. Women aren’t the problem in this world. Neither is feminism as a force.
You simply ignore the whole fake reality. It’s not real. It’s totally fake.
What if...what if men just said...”what’s feminism?”, “oh you mean that silly reality you are trying to feed me?” Then laugh.
Who is anyone. I mean anyone, to tell you what to think?
A man’s problem isn’t the laws or the fake reality that exists. It’s that he bought into it. That is a complete shift of responsibility to YOU. Learn to own it. Realize women are only trying to survive and the idea that you can suppress their breeding strategy has failed utterly. Centuries of religious indoctrination has failed. Centuries of burning them or crucifying them has failed.
If you still believe it’s them, you are still a failed man. Unlearn your Achilles heels. Are you a man or a whimpering girl? Sniff Sniff
I honestly don't hold it against a woman if she hasn't had a bastard child at 35. Fvck, these days that can be a PLUS to me! I used to fvck a FINE @$$ woman that was 40 and didn't have any kids but my God she was hot, she wasn't crazy and she would do ANYTHING. I know she's the exception to the rule but if only more women were like her, no kids, no drama, and awesome in the sack.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think it could be solved with your gut feel. If a girl is helping you to feel calm and centred at least 80% of the time and you're kicking goals in your life then potentially she's a keeper. then of course you have to look at life circumstances of you both and do some testing. I know it's ridiculously tough being a man in America. but a lot of you guys seem to fish in polluted Ponds and and try and argue that a two headed fish is fine.
If she is confusing you or causing mental anguish and you're being distracted from your life goals then kick to the kerb.
And early on it shouldn't matter guys. In early dating your job is to try and f*** them and spin plates
If she is confusing you or causing mental anguish and you're being distracted from your life goals then kick to the kerb.
And early on it shouldn't matter guys. In early dating your job is to try and f*** them and spin plates
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Ranger
Guest
Or more accurately, they (men) polute the pond with their corrupted thoughts and actions and then complain about the two headed fish.
Girls with daddy issues, like real issues, childhood problems, family divorced etc.. some ppl come out normal but few who aren't it's better to ignore.. super silence type girls, who you cannot open argh but they keep on asking what you want
touma.akagi
Senior Don Juan
Textbook SJW
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
R
Ranger
Guest
I don’t use the word Alpha. It’s a ridiculous word and my statement stands. You are fully allowed to disagree.
It’s whats in a man’s head that dictates what’s in the water.
R
Ranger
Guest
LMAO
Women form to my standard. Standard is. I don’t even have to communicate it. She knows.
Not even a small portion of that stuff has been done to me. If it has, I simply ignored it or it didn’t register as hostile. I’m a bit tougher than passive men.
Roober
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The whole concept of red flags is a fools errand. You cant apply an attribute in many different contexts and think it holds the same weight. There are far too many variables in peoples lives to do this.
Additionally, a man who possesses the defining characteristics of a man (leadership, stoicism, etc.) Will mitigate any potential influence of a woman's past on her current relations with him.
Every situation is unique. Every person is unique. You are far better (and more successful) by evaluating each encounter as an individual encounter rather than clumping it into a nice little box of repression.
Additionally, a man who possesses the defining characteristics of a man (leadership, stoicism, etc.) Will mitigate any potential influence of a woman's past on her current relations with him.
Every situation is unique. Every person is unique. You are far better (and more successful) by evaluating each encounter as an individual encounter rather than clumping it into a nice little box of repression.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Whats considered "dysfunctional"?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
glass half full
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When women start to realize the need to check their own behavior, because they will be held accountable for it by wiser and pickier men, they (hopefully) will grow from it and see what men won't tolerate just for the sake of a Vag.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So pulling out a phone on a date talking about other guys dyck pics is like dog shytting the rug?
Yep, highly counterproductive behavior from her if her IL is high…
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Agree. Unless they are comfirmed to be the "swinger" or open viewpoint i think its worth ending the date right there.
Yes, it’s basically female friend or low male interest behavior…
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.