So as you all know, my marriage is below average at best. I teach at university, lots of hot chicks around regularly. I struggle not to act on clear invitations from women. Today, a hot chick follows me right out of the coffee house and strikes up a conversation with me. She clearly wanted me to hit on her. It took all I had to only hold polite conversation and move on with my day. Advice? Thoughts?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Huh?
sazc
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Waifu == wife
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So you're thinking bad idea to act on it at my university?
I'd like to
lamath
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If you want to act on that insatisfaction i would suggest doing it somewhere the chances of getting caught are very low, at university where you work far from best spot.
AttackFormation
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"Give me the highest grades and recommendations, help pay my bills and do whatever I ask, or I'll let your wife and the school know, and file a rape charge".
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lamath
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Indeed dont **** where you eat.
glass half full
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Perhaps she knows he is surrounded by pu$$y, and is just waiting for him to fvck up...that's why no action at home.
They like it to be the man's fault. I'd leave that chick alone (at school) and instead look elsewhere. Another school, maybe?
They like it to be the man's fault. I'd leave that chick alone (at school) and instead look elsewhere. Another school, maybe?
