So as you all know, my marriage is below average at best. I teach at university, lots of hot chicks around regularly. I struggle not to act on clear invitations from women. Today, a hot chick follows me right out of the coffee house and strikes up a conversation with me. She clearly wanted me to hit on her. It took all I had to only hold polite conversation and move on with my day. Advice? Thoughts?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Married and Unsatisfied
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Huh?
sazc
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Waifu == wife
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
So you're thinking bad idea to act on it at my university?
I'd like to
lamath
Master Don Juan
If you want to act on that insatisfaction i would suggest doing it somewhere the chances of getting caught are very low, at university where you work far from best spot.
AttackFormation
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"Give me the highest grades and recommendations, help pay my bills and do whatever I ask, or I'll let your wife and the school know, and file a rape charge".
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lamath
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Indeed dont **** where you eat.
glass half full
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Perhaps she knows he is surrounded by pu$$y, and is just waiting for him to fvck up...that's why no action at home.
They like it to be the man's fault. I'd leave that chick alone (at school) and instead look elsewhere. Another school, maybe?
They like it to be the man's fault. I'd leave that chick alone (at school) and instead look elsewhere. Another school, maybe?
