"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Anybody here ever mess around with professional match maker services?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
abroad? I want a relationship, not just to get my **** wet
All you people online who talk Chad this and Chad that. I really don't know if dating is easy even for Chads. There is a dude at my gym who is your stereotypical chad - Puerto Rican light skinned 6'0 180 lbs 7% bf (8 pack abs), male model face, lots of tattoos. I've seen him try to chat up women 2 or 3 times who all blew him off pretty quickly. Another dude at my gym is a 6'1 very good looking white guy...has never had any dating success either. I'm a pretty good looking guy myself - at least in that 7/10 range for Latino/Middle Eastern men and I get nothing.
Women are insanely difficult nowadays. Fruitbat, I have everything going for me - great income, great friends, great lifestyle, etc...
sazc
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Same ol rant
Dave, just try the matchmaking service. In fact, why not try it and you can author athread letting everyone know what the journey is like getting set up, matched, and what the when and dates are like
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Make plans to do what you want to do then invite chicks along... this does a couple of things. It guarantees you'll have some fun because you are doing what you enjoy. Second, if you are doing what you like... and the chick goes along with it and has fun doing the same thing, it's the best way to find a chick that likes you and that is compatible. Take the lead and see if she follows.
backseatjuan
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Right this moment you can create a profile on love.mail.ru, without standing up from your arse, set location to Erevan, and tell in your profile that you live in U.S., make six figures, etc, and looking for a serious relationship. Even though you're short, and average, money is a great equalizer, money plus American citizenship, and you're at least an 8, you qualify for those btches.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Crown
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That person you're looking for won't complet you; but destroy you more. If you're not happy in your life being single, you won't be happy once you'll be in a (serious) relationship.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It would be wise to communicate to ALL women and maintain communication with women who like talking to you. Fat, skinny, old and young and different ethnicities. Talking to women is a huge part of the game. But also so is getting laid. You are going to hear the same advice until people stop talking to you or you get sick and tired of not having results. You need results. At this point in time you will not make it with most "hot" girls because youll be heavily penalized for not being in the game. Adios.
MatureDJ
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I can speak from experience that this works. Of course when I say that I am in St. Pete, it is the truth.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.