I'll take a look. I think their was a major misunderstanding with my comment about it being the man's fault.
When I say "it's the man's fault > 90% of the time" I mean it like, if your woman is pissing you off, has a ****ty attitude, cheating on you etc... I would assume, based on what I have read and my own experience, that the man isn't handling the woman like he should be. Their behavior is out of control because the man isn't keeping it in line. Like a child, if you let them have a tantrum and give them what they want, they will continue to misbehave. Is a relationship much different?
This sums up what I meant above.
I don't believe women know how to make themselves happy (for the most part), and thus rely on their man for it. I agree with a lot of what you said here. Now, I'm not saying the man should be bending over backward to MAKE them happy, being a superior man and acting accordingly should make the woman happy. A man builds a successful career, keeps himself educated and in shape, has a social life, etc... are attractive qualities for a woman. Not saying he should do these things FOR woman, rather himself. If the man lets himself get lazy and his wife wants a divorce, or the marriage crumbles, I think that's the man's problem.
Of course the woman could get lazy, not put any effort into the marriage, etc... But I doubt after the divorce your ex wife lives a life of celibacy (she still wants to be with a man, why not you?). That was sort of my point in making the thread. Why did she get this way? Were you really the best man you could be, and she wasn't satisfied with that?
It's a username I used when I was trying to transfer to a top California university a few years ago (I got in), and just kept the name. It means nothing, like your comment.
Correct, classes started up recently, I'm in the process of divorce and buying a house. Got busy.