THAT would be scarcity mindset.
Scarcity mindset- when you allow the outcome of one girl to fvck up your frame. Making it seem that this one girl is above the rest and you just have to do whatever it takes to get her because you feel as though you might not find someone better.
So lets see:
I figured I'd text her something like how she must be afraid to fall in love with me haha
Totally beta. I would ask my best friend to cut my balls off if I ever sent a chick something like that.
explain it's just a movie at her place
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@guru1000 already said- why are you trying to sell her on the idea of getting together? Its because you know she is showing low interest and you are trying to do things to increase her interest because being yourself isnt doing it (scarcity mindset). There is no negotiating interest. Especially if her interest WAS higher and you have clearly done things to drop it. The only thing you can possibly do is leave her be and she might come back. At that point you need to fix A LOT of things or she will lose interest even faster the next time. Not that I see her coming back a 3rd time.....
ask her if she is down with that
I dont ask questions. I make offers. There is a huge difference. If they dont accept my offer, I am dust in the wind unless she reaches back out.
So you say she is LI, yet when I give you example of all the HI signs, you ignore them and claim you are still right
In YOUR words, she showed HI when you ignored her. As soon as you showed interest again she showed signs of low interest. Do you understand how that works? You are an orbiter of hers. She wants to keep you in her orbit. That is the game she is playing....not whether or now she is going to fvck you. That has already been decided.
considering she seemed to have HI before I used that jealousy tactic (really kicking myself for that one), do you think THAT is what caused her not to respond/back off a bit?
1.) Tactics- My dog will do tricks for treats. Its a tactic that I use to get him to do what I want. It only works when I pull the treat out. No treat- no trick. That tactic works on him. Do you really want a woman that you must use "tactics" on? Or do you want to have women at your disposal that want you to be around you because you are charming, attractive, high SMV, have your shyte together, crave your validation (because it holds the most weight) and get wet just thinking about you? Or do you want some chick that you need to "trick" or "sell and negotiate" to even get together?
That is the question you should be asking yourself. Always be working on self improvement which in turns provides more options of high interest women.
2.) If a woman has high crazy attraction/interest towards you, then you can say or get away with about anything. If it is low, everything you do wrong in her eyes will quickly diminish any interest/attraction that she may or may not have had for you.
I would assume that at some point this chick may have had some interest in you. That really doesnt matter now that all signs point to low attraction or no attraction/interest. Thats all that matters.
The double texting, not taking no for an answer, trying to sell yourself because you feel inadequate in her eyes.......all things that someone that is needy/desperate/scarce mindset would do. All of that killed any attraction that she may or may not have had.
I am not busting your balls just being honest. You werent a 10 in her eyes or you could have gotten away with most of it and still fvcked her once or twice. Because you are not, all of these things did nothing but lowered her interest even more.