"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Married. How many guys have a side dish ?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I’m not referring to me. No I don’t have a woman on the side.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I also would question the reason to marry? why you did it? if she is not enough why put it up with her at all?
remember me what I heard from some friends over and over, with the girl manipulating then to marry then, giving ultimatums and the hell of it, and they put up with it
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I agree.... I keep telling my friend I don’t know why he wants to deal with the drama of an affair. One girl is enough and if your looking for side action get a high end escort that won’t form a crazy emotional attachment
speed dawg
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I might go to Vegas and get a hooker or something maybe.
A woman in our circle of friends was caught about ten years ago. Her and the H split for about seven months then reconciled. He actually just passed away from cancer about four months ago. Aged 49 way too young.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
If there's a problem within the marriage - work it out like a man.
If the marriage is ending - work it out until it ends. Fight for it.
If the wife cheated on you - end the marriage and fvck around like a champion!
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Everyone in the room? Sure you werent in Vegas?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Did wife cut you off sex near end? Did addition of the side piece raise the wifes desire?
They all get caught in the end and the shietstorm that ensued will tear into the family fabric.
Children always almost end up the main victims.
Which is why men in marriages shouldn't contemplate cheating.
If a wife somehow ain't providing sex then simply state to her that u r a man with desires you can't control nor subdue it due to ur inherent biological nature as a male - it's a simple fact that she needs to understand you will stray and that contributes towards the ending of a marriage.
I've adviced this to a few married women I personally know - and getting the hint they are now more gladly spreading their legs to keep their men compliant in their marriages.
Win - win situation.
Good advice but it's just not in my makeup to let something go unpunished. I prefer to **** around, let her find out, get the reaction, then leave her.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do whatever makes you feel happy in the end.
It's the results you desire that matters and not the details.
mrgoodstuff
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He should stop helping her if shes not fvcking.
Confrontational stances doesn't work in the long run.
Which is why discussion pertaining to masculine needs is a waste of time as it always ends up with a fight and the man losing.
This creates bitterness.
Just make a statement and stick to it.
Do not negotiate the rights of manhood.
No discussion is required once you've steadfast in your stances.
The moment you discuss it is the moment you entered into a negotiation stage and that is the moment you as a man loses power.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
my position was NOT confrontational. While shes not doing her part he should stop supporting her. I mean we cant force her to fvck daily. But once a week for 15 minutes as a minimum and to get some support and kindness out of them.
And how did being confrontational work out for you in your past ?
Don't take this as me dissing you but take it as me asking the hard questions that no one seems to want to ask themselves.
If the result is failure then it's a waste of time.
A man must always think of ways in any situation to come out of it profitable.
When you do something there's always an equal and opposite reaction.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.