"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would you recommened sexting?

kzar_kzar

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I can lead her to sexting, but normally I don't unless she is there right infront of me.. but i noticed that recently most girls didn't agree to meet up, only thing missing is sexting.
~ am I becoming too straight forward? In person, conversation went great with last 3 girls that I met in bar but led to nothing..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HughJasolphd

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I got a girl that initiates it nearly every two days with me. I say the dirtiest **** to her & she eats it up. She lives in northern FL so I can't meet up with her all the time, but I do appreciate her effort. I barely try. Most days She sends nudes on snapchat without me asking.
 

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Fine for her, not good for you. One of my harim wanted me to do this with her, I refused. She never deletes a text and who knows what can happen in the future. If she wants to send you anything, fine. You, PC only. Never ever send anything questionable, risque or personally damaging via text.
 

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Once you are banging her, sext away
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What are you afraid of? That she is going to show your texts to your Mom or something?
More like social media or if it's really raunchy it can be used against me in some way, shape or form. Happens to plenty of guys here in NYC. It's what they do. However, do what you like. I run a business, anything risque in text could hurt my business. Not worth the fallout for my business.
 

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More like social media or if it's really raunchy it can be used against me in some way, shape or form. Happens to plenty of guys here in NYC. It's what they do. However, do what you like. I run a business, anything risque in text could hurt my business. Not worth the fallout for my business.
Fair enough.
 

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This made me think to years back in college when I lost my blackberry, I had a lot of raunchy x rated stuff on it.... to this day I sometimes wonder about who saw that stuff, and I prey they just deleted it all
More like social media or if it's really raunchy it can be used against me in some way, shape or form. Happens to plenty of guys here in NYC. It's what they do. However, do what you like. I run a business, anything risque in text could hurt my business. Not worth the fallout for my business.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sure why not. I say that craziest things to girls I'm seeing. I used to be worse lol but hey... they like it.
 

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Fine for her, not good for you. One of my harim wanted me to do this with her, I refused. She never deletes a text and who knows what can happen in the future. If she wants to send you anything, fine. You, PC only. Never ever send anything questionable, risque or personally damaging via text.
Also, never send photos of your face when sexting. Cut your face out.
 

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This made me think to years back in college when I lost my blackberry, I had a lot of raunchy x rated stuff on it.... to this day I sometimes wonder about who saw that stuff, and I prey they just deleted it all
Yea, one of the women I'm fvcking with asked me to send her a nudie, I said her first; she obliged. However, I said rather show you in person... It's more intimate that way. :p

Also, never send photos of your face when sexting. Cut your face out.
Not worth the headache or risk. These women share everything with others these days. Rather keep it to neutral to pushing the limit texts.
 

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Naw. Texting is for females. Let your dvck do the talking. If you must discuss sex, do it over the phone.

Talking about sex is never necessary. Men don’t understand that women get wet using their own imagination. You’re more likely to turn her off talking about it than vice versa.

The formula is to lay the pipe, disappear, then repeat until she’s completely gone over you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yea, one of the women I'm fvcking with asked me to send her a nudie, I said her first; she obliged. However, I said rather show you in person... It's more intimate that way. :p



Not worth the headache or risk. These women share everything with others these days. Rather keep it to neutral to pushing the limit texts.
True but once she becomes a steady plate and you banged her good. sexting her will make her moist. Keep it short. Only do it 24hrs before meetup. My experience.
 

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Yea, one of the women I'm fvcking with asked me to send her a nudie, I said her first; she obliged. However, I said rather show you in person... It's more intimate that way. :p



Not worth the headache or risk. These women share everything with others these days. Rather keep it to neutral to pushing the limit texts.
Agreed with women share everything, one example is my previous colleague, she used to texts all day through with random guys and after 450ish, copy paste it into word or screen shot convo into a file, might be the birubg work.. argh..
Also depends on the guy, and how they initiate, one guy at work was being discuss as creepy because that dude sent her text at 4am, well I was making out with the that same girl at around 1 or so that night and he was there..
 

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True but once she becomes a steady plate and you banged her good. sexting her will make her moist. Keep it short. Only do it 24hrs before meetup. My experience.
It can also be used against you. Just be careful. You can still get her moist by using innuendoes and PC stuff.

Agreed with women share everything, one example is my previous colleague, she used to texts all day through with random guys and after 450ish, copy paste it into word or screen shot convo into a file, might be the birubg work.. argh..
Also depends on the guy, and how they initiate, one guy at work was being discuss as creepy because that dude sent her text at 4am, well I was making out with the that same girl at around 1 or so that night and he was there..
Yea, very true. I rarely respond to any woman, unless a real emergency, after 10pm. When I've gotten into arguments with women, she'd poll her friends and tell me that they said this, that, etc. One time, one of my plates came back from a family trip and we were going to do something. So, for her to be on time, she wanted me to pick her up at JFK airport. I'm not a taxi, but instead of getting into a fight, I just said, can't do it. Not going to happen. I'm working at so and so and it's way out of the area. Done and done. She still came by, we went out, we banged that night and the next morning.

Never lose frame. Always be in control. Never argue. Argue=weakness. I'm 42. I'm too old for this HS/college sh!t.
 

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Text very minimally. Only for setting up dates or the odd text to keep in contact if away. Let all those type of sexual feelings happen in person.

Also depends on what you’re pursuing the woman for.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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