"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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More women are riding motorcycles...

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It doesnt take much to ruin your day bro.

Man up, get more stuff going!

I've seen the same and it surprised me at first but now i am chill with it.. We dont know the context, I've seen/been with some biker girls..

They quite sexy (real beauties) who do have strong frame.

Anyway, it's no secret motorcycle business are Struggling and HarleyDavison are seen as old man bike. Now, kids and adult prefer SUV :p (and bike are hard by law according to some places, in Canada, you can only ride them for 3 months)
To me it feels unnatural and it would freak me out a little bit.
Its like transgender i just can get use to it,I guess with exposition it might not affect me as much, but deep down idk if ill ever get use to it.


Imo a man should never be sitting behind a women on a bike unless he is teaching her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The demographics for female bikers exists in the suburbs and rural vicinities.
I have yet to see them riding in urban cities.
I've witnessed several riding in Miami beach, Daytona beach, Clearwater, FL, and Ocean City, MD
 

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Girls with bikes is more commonplace in poorer/packed cities/countries.

You guys should visit jakarta and see all those ladies on their bikes.
 

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Well yeah, there are places in the world where m/c's are used for daily transportation and those females such as in Italy etc ride Vespas and look cute. In this case though, I was talking about recreational m/c'ing in the US. Two very different things. And my point was not just m/c'ing but also women more and more getting into other similar things like weight lifting, power lifting etc etc...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Riding c0ck cycles too...
 

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From the article:

"Even less than a decade ago, well into the 21st century, only ten percent of bike owners were women.
But that’s changing.

A new survey by the Motorcycle Industry Council (MIC) shows that right now, women make up 19% of all owners."

That's 2x increase in 10yrs.
Is that number including sport bikes?

Choppers and Sport Bikes are two completely different things.
 

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Girls with bikes is more commonplace in poorer/packed cities/countries.

You guys should visit jakarta and see all those ladies on their bikes.
that is because they are cheaper than cars and many people ride them because they cant afford a car . whole in north america they ride them for different reasons
 

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that is because they are cheaper than cars and many people ride them because they cant afford a car . whole in north america they ride them for different reasons
That's true. Ain't gonna argue about that.

But what's the fuss with women riding bikes? They're not going to be hardcore riders, in the end they all going to want comfort.
 

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But what's the fuss with women riding bikes?
There is no problem with woman riding bike, however there is a trend in women to go after masculine activities, which could cause identity issue in the society.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There is no problem with woman riding bike, however there is a trend in women to go after masculine activities, which could cause identity issue in the society.
Women mirror men to provide balance.

If men are becoming more feminine then women will be more masculine.

Women always follow mens lead in everything.

All you need to do is go visit Sweden. Real life examples to seen 1st hand.

Then instead of blaming women we should instead tackle the root cause - men.
 
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