2nd time gf needs space

[niceguytoalphamale]

Doesn't matter now. She's been dismissed by you.

And now it's time to dismiss her from social media.

After that, it's a progression of dismissals in your mind of her.

Take a step by step approach, this is how a man dismisses a woman until she has become irrelevant.

Why did she keep me on Facebook? I have a feeling when her new relationship doesn't work out she will remember and come back

 

[Spaz]

@Spaz I did everything right I'm litteraly laying in bed crying my eyes out.

That's fine, cry, scream, vent it all out. Don't hold back.

Make sure no one sees you. A man must ensures he stands on his dignity.

 

[djdfuser]

I erase them from my reality. I know my worth.

Right after you've erased the plugholes/vacuum cleaner of her hairs.

 

[Focal core]

No more to discuss with this chicks.. I would just ghosted her without closure, change or block her number, poof gone.. Youre a chumps and still didnt realized that.. Next she will introduced you to her new bf and still you will beg her to be friends.

If you can afford to leave all your belonging behind just do it, she will use this opportunity to get more validation out of you and hurting you further.. Youve been duly warned..

Nuts.

 

[Focal core]

Why did she keep me on Facebook? I have a feeling when her new relationship doesn't work out she will remember and come back

To keep you around to fill her needs.. Its not about you.

 

[Glassguy]

Why did she keep me on Facebook? I have a feeling when her new relationship doesn't work out she will remember and come back

Let me point this out to you again as you have seem to of missed it the first few times around:

YOU are being your only problem here. Your mindset is totally off my man.

Your mentality and attitude: If the new relationship doesnt work out I will gladly take her back = no self respect.

My mentality and attitude: If she goes that's fine. I will add another chick to my rotation.....but if she leaves and tries to come back I will quickly shut that door in her face. I am enough as I am and I will not be someone's sloppy seconds.

Do you even see the difference?

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

To keep you around to fill her needs.. Its not about you.

@Focal core what do you mean fulfill her needs?

 

[lamath]

No more to discuss with this chicks.. I would just ghosted her without closure, change or block her number, poof gone.. Youre a chumps and still didnt realized that.. Next she will introduced you to her new bf and still you will beg her to be friends.

If you can afford to leave all your belonging behind just do it, she will use this opportunity to get more validation out of you and hurting you further.. Youve been duly warned..

Nuts.

This and FB block her

 

[Glassguy]

@Focal core what do you mean fulfill her needs?

He means that she is keeping you around as an ego boost. She knows that if she says jump you will ask "How high?".

Her intentions and motives are solely based on fulfilling her own needs and she could care less about yours. She already knows how this is going to end but sadly you cant see it yet.

 

[Focal core]

@Focal core what do you mean fulfill her needs?

Means her selfish needs.. More ways to use you and suck you dry and hurt you further.. At first it will feels great.. When times come u will realized and ask yourself this.. "what am i? A chopped liver?" and suddently you will realized you a dirt under her feet.

 

[Von]

@Focal core what do you mean fulfill her needs?

Your a puppet for her.. Like a little puppy dog.

As Glassguy mentionned, if she ask you to jump.. What will you do "how high"

Women are selfish by nature more than man, they need an ego to protect them..m that ego is called validation: "how popular i am" " how many guys can lay down for me just using my little finger".

Ask yourself why women always wanna have "fun" "a party" where they are "the center"

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

He means that she is keeping you around as an ego boost. She knows that if she says jump you will ask "How high?".

Her intentions and motives are solely based on fulfilling her own needs and she could care less about yours. She already knows how this is going to end but sadly you cant see it yet.

I've already broken up with her

 

[Focal core]

I've already broken up with her

Good.. Experiences these feeling.. Not processed it.. Honor it..mourn to it.. U will grow and become a better man and you will be gaming other chicks in no time.. The very moment you contact this girl youre giving away the power to her.. Good job.. NC gone forever.

 

[lamath]

I've already broken up with her

You did good there, ik its not easy.

Now listen to the advices on the long run it will help you greatly

Sad how people in this thread were on point and there was indeed an other guy

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Good.. Experiences these feeling.. Not processed it.. Honor it..mourn to it.. U will grow and become a better man and you will be gaming other chicks in no time.. The very moment you contact this girl youre giving away the power to her.. Good job.. NC gone forever.

I'm gonna go no contact after I pick my stuff up. For some screwed up reason I feel she will be back

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

You did good there, ik its not easy.

Now listen to the advices on the long run it will help you greatly

Sad how people in this thread were on point and there was indeed an other guy

I think there was another guy

 

[Glassguy]

I think there was another guy

Then why do you hope that she comes back if you broke up with her and you feel as if there is another guy?

That is what I dont understand. Break ups should be final. Divorces should be final. Why? There is a REASON it didnt work. 99% of the time the reason is NOT correctable. So why do people "hope" the other person comes back after a break up or divorce?

So they can eventually "work it out" and get back to the same break up or divorce point again? Because the problem didnt go away. Its still there just waiting to rear its ugly head.

No....no.....I will tell you why people "hope" they come back. Its the same reason YOU hope she comes back:

The break up is used as a form of punishment instead of closure. You feel as though you will punish her and then she will come back and submit. Sorry, but it doesnt work that way.

Women will never love you unless they respect you. Once they do not respect you, they will not love you. It is really that simple.

When a woman starts doing things that are disrespectful you can correct that quickly in its early stages when the disrespectful actions are small and innocent. How do you do that? Silence and Distance. When the woman does something that seems disrespectful early on, shyte test or not, you simply walk away and do not reach out. Silence and Distance. She isnt stupid, she knows why you walked away. So she can change her behavior and straighten the hell up or keep walking for all I care. If she apologetically comes crawling back, and I am still luke warm interested, she has to make it up to me. I will also make it abundantly clear that I dont treat people like that and people that I allow in my life wont treat me like that either.

If she does it again, poof.....I am gone. She is not my child to continually punish. I have better things to do and there are too many available women out there in this big old world.

That is another example of your scarcity mindset vs my abundance mindset. You need to work on yourself bro. This little relationship with her is over and its best that you acknowledge that now instead of later.

You can either keep going forward without her, self respect and dignity in hand, or ever allow her to come back and take those too before she bounces for good.

 

[Focal core]

I'm gonna go no contact after I pick my stuff up. For some screwed up reason I feel she will be back

Both are right she will be back and theres another man involved.. If youre the type of person who didnt numb out your feelings or ignore them, you can rely on your instinct to be 99% accurate.

 

[Chi Town]

You have been reborn again.....

Congradulations.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Both are right she will be back and theres another man involved.. If youre the type of person who didnt numb out your feelings or ignore them, you can rely on your instinct to be 99% accurate.

I just don't know why bro but when this guy goes to **** she's gonna run back saying how wrong she was etc. I know this she will come back.. yous are right she will.realise he isn't as good as me and she will come back to me but I don't think I can take her back after this