"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who drives?

cardinal79

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Who usually drives when you pick a girl up in club / bar? Do you ask her to give you a ride home because something happened to your car so she doesn’t have to worry about logistics or do you drive her back to your place yourself because you take control of situation. Let me know...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thatfeel21

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Call me old school, but i drive. Also helps that I drive a sports car that turns people's heads
 

zekko

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Call me old school, but i drive.
That is old school. When I was growing up, this wouldn't even be a question. Men drove, it was part of their masculine role and leadership.
Now days, I could see guys saying you were being a "white knight" by driving - "Why are you wasting your gas money on that b!tch, Captain Save-a-Ho?". Drunk driving is much more of a sensitive issue now too, the sober person should drive (if there is one).
 

mrgoodstuff

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That is old school. When I was growing up, this wouldn't even be a question. Men drove, it was part of their masculine role and leadership.
Now days, I could see guys saying you were being a "white knight" by driving - "Why are you wasting your gas money on that b!tch, Captain Save-a-Ho?". Drunk driving is much more of a sensitive issue now too, the sober person should drive (if there is one).
In our culture you do have to look out for simping.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Always drive, take charge and lead.

That should always be the case unless u r drunk or unable because of sickness.
 

ohrein

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Doesn't matter. I like driving and my girl doesn't so that's an easy solution. But I also lost my license for a while due to stupid behavior in the past. My girlfriend drove us around a lot and it had zero impact on her attraction to me.

The mindset is more important.
 
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