"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it less worse if a slvt is raped than if a woman who doesn't put out as easily is raped?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it less worse if a slvt is raped than if a woman who doesn't put out as easily is raped?
If a man has a high partner count, and he is raped, someone forces penetration on him, is that less bad than someone raping a man who doesn't have a high partner count?
 

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If a man has a high partner count, and he is raped, someone forces penetration on him, is that less bad than someone raping a man who doesn't have a high partner count?
Not what I asked and it's not an equal comparison
 

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why is it not an equal comparison?
Because a woman with a high partner count is a negative thing. Also this is a serious question, stop being facetious in my thread. Thanks in advanced.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, it depends on whom you ask. Each woman would probably it rather not happen to her. The rapist might not care either way.

You could argue that it's better to protect the virtue of a virgin than a prostitute, for society's sake. But you didn't say that, you said a slvt vs. a relatively more chaste woman. We don't know, too many variables. If the slvt were a cancer researcher on the cusp of a cure, and the crime caused her to commit suicide, then that would suck.
Objectively speaking. All you have to go on is one is a slvt and one is not. It's very simple friend. Requires a yes or no.
 

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Because a woman with a high partner count is a negative thing. Also this is a serious question, stop being facetious in my thread. Thanks in advanced.
I'm not being facetious. I'm engaging your question. Just because a woman has a nigh partner count does not equate justifying rape on any level. "less worse", "more worse"

rape is RAPE. man or woman. high partner count or not. it's RAPE
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm not being facetious. I'm engaging your question. Just because a woman has a nigh partner count does not equate justifying rape on any level. "less worse", "more worse"

rape is RAPE. man or woman. high partner count or not. it's RAPE
Now you're trying to put words in my mouth and I already knew your feminist response would be "rape is RAPE". No chit rape is rape.

My point is that isn't it Less bad if the girl is a slvt anyways? I never said I condoned it, but nice try. Rape is objectively wrong and immoral. But a slvt has less value in terms of a serious and meaningful relationship and her sexuality has less value because she gives it away so easily anyways. How often does she trade sex for some sort of material or even financial gain? So what's the difference? In one case she trades it for goods or services, in another case she does not get anything in return. I mean why do you think a slvt or a woman who trades sex, or the implication of possible sex, deserves to be treated with the same amount of respect as a woman who actually respects her self and seeks a meaningful whole relationship with a decent guy?

Also most likely I bet that women who are more promiscuous probably make up the majority of rape victims. I wonder why that is. They should seriously do a study on that. It would make a lot of sense.

I think it's worse crime for a non slvt to be raped than slvt. Obviously it's wrong either way.
 

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I'm not being facetious. I'm engaging your question. Just because a woman has a nigh partner count does not equate justifying rape on any level. "less worse", "more worse"

rape is RAPE. man or woman. high partner count or not. it's RAPE
Look at how people's lives are ruined over false accusations. Our society takes it to seriousle and puts all the blame on men as a whole. Maybe our. Society needs to change how it looks at rape. If women felt less safe. They might be more careful about avoiding putting themselves in compromising situations.
 

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The point she’s making is rape is Rape regardless of sex, do you get it ?
Yeah but that's not relevant to my question at all. Shes side tracking the whole point. I didn't ask about that and it's not necessary to bring it up to answer the question. It's a very straight forward question. Also if it turns out that women who are generally more promiscuous, are more likely to be raped, what does that tell you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Also if it turns out that women who are generally more promiscuous, are more likely to be raped, what does that tell you?
It tells me that you have the mindset of a future rapist. Anymore qiestions ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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