backseatjuan
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Yes or no? And why not or why yes?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Would you marry Shasha Grey?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Papa_smu
Banned
I don't think she's interested in marrying anyone.
redskinsfan92
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No
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
backseatjuan
Banned
Awwww. But what about DJ motto, I don't care who she slept with before??
She has a net worth of 3 million. So maybe.
But I'm not exactly blessed in the hardware department so I'd be worried about fulfilling her. So nah, I'd just go along for the roomy ride until my alpha male jealousy wrecked it all to sh!t.
Don't care too much about the pr0n stuff btw. I've DATED strippers in the past so sex workers are no big deal to me in theory.
But I'm not exactly blessed in the hardware department so I'd be worried about fulfilling her. So nah, I'd just go along for the roomy ride until my alpha male jealousy wrecked it all to sh!t.
Don't care too much about the pr0n stuff btw. I've DATED strippers in the past so sex workers are no big deal to me in theory.
R u sure that's a DJ motto?
Or the Beta's self rationalisation towards oneitis?
Ain't no man alive that's worth his salt ever gonna marry such a woman. However I've no doubt some guy will wife her up and take a wild guess what type of guy does so...
revolutionnow
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Not that particular porn star but crazier things have happened
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I don’t think what I would do to her is considered marriage.
What's the difference if a woman has taken 100s of meat pipes in the porn industry vs. a woman who has taken a few dozen off TV?
A more interesting question would've been if people here would spin her as a plate?
A more interesting question would've been if people here would spin her as a plate?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The image and entitlement should be greater in the porn. So itll kill more of your life.
Well I know I'm not strong enough to have her as a plate or even as a ONS (I'll regret it afterwards). I wouldn't be able to ignore her past and how she was gang f'ked 7 ways till Sunday and fapped to by millions. It'll eat away at me little by little until I would drive myself crazy but I'm not a red-pilled alpha lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Is it possible she can treat you like a king, offsetting her past? Or thats highly unlikely. Shell use you as the luxury of a loving a reliable cuck.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
R
Ranger
Guest
Yes and this is a problem? Lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The cuck option is a problem. If she wants to treat you like a great guy that wouldnt be a issue.
Highly unlikely. Hypothetically speaking, even if, I don't think that'll be enough for me personally.
Well, I'll probably be towards the bottom of her list of suitors but if I ever got called to serve...I'll just have to decline lol
R
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Oh I don’t do relationships that try to go past the physical.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That'll keep you out of 90% of the issues the rest of us encounter.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.