When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
A male 8+ in looks. Hot guy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You didn't really say anything that sounds like full blown adultery, but sounds more like the Pastor is insecure with his wife. Religious conviction, as you said is just that. It means you have principles and boundaries that are mediated with your belief in God and what pleases Him and doing the right thing. So, I need something stronger than mental or emotional lapse at some moment especially if you claimed to had full-blown sex with married women and women with boyfriends.
It is also worth noting that the Chads do not have to be ripped or super-athletic, they just have to have a certain charisma about them. There is also the indirect "social proof" aura that other women know this guy has no issues having any woman he wants in his life, etc....
Your right. That inhibition and restraint has been removed. How the hell can a man maintain dignity in that environment. The only man who could win with such parameters is an actual PIMP who doesnt mind cause he pass her around for $.
Until you are on the receiving end, then they are gender specific.
Of course I would, why would a little extra weight be a deal-breaker?bigdave17 said:
That must be very anomalous to you. Statistics show that women initiate and cause most of the divorces. In my own experience, 100% of any past-break-up or divorce was 150% the fault of the woman.bigdave17 said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
@characternote has a thread called "100 approaches", where he would be doing pretty well with a girl (or girls) until his good looking friend showed up, then they would be like "We like your friend". That's a Chad. I agree that they don't all fit under one particular type or description. I think it can be hard for men to predict which guys women find so appealing, and why. Sometimes it's obvious, but other times it isn't.
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Chads not going to be excessively in the gym after sports cause he doesnt care. Hes fvcking bytches anyway off his rep and social proof. Hes not going to be a perfectionist. Cause he dgaf. Hes voing to fvck bytches and dgaf.
It reminds me of a scene in American Pie -- in that movie one of they guys, Finch I think was the character, paid a woman $ 200 to make up rumours he was good in bed, and allot of women in that high school suddenly was attracted to him. You wonder, even if this was in this old movie, that the principle (i.e. rep and social proof) could be true.
Chad most likely will be charismatic because of all the positive feedback he’s received in the past. I’ve yet to meet this mythical ugly guy with a hot personality that pulls women on the reg lol.
Women talk. So you dont even need to make rumors. If you simply penetrate one of the bytches in the group, your in. If your not in that circle yet **** one of the lesser attractive but still attractive nicer ones. Shes not getting as much attention or dyck cause guys are being chumps behind her hotter friends. Fvck her good make sure she cums hard. The socially proof males that they pursue dont want them. The socially proofed male gets served and dont care if the female is pleasured. So itll be pretty easy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Also watch the 80s movie Can’t Buy Me Love. A nerd pays a hot cheerleader to pretend to be his gf. Then the other girls in school want him
Its in the movies... But in real life theyre monkey see monkey do. If one of them wants you, others will consider you. Others will want you. If none of them want you nobody will want to be first to try.
Absolutely. It’s a solid principle in real life too.
I think we nailed the penetrate one in the group.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
High sex drive doesnt mean they sleep around. Some of us can fvck multiple times a day.
Im a oddball then. Cause i like some good puzzy at home and i might like to know i have options. I wont consider it of i already have it good. But i get it most would cheat.
That ***** must be AMAZZINGGG!!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.