"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl Says She Will Do "Anything You Want"

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So, I was standing in line to get inside the bar. There was a cute girl in front of me. Out of boredom I ask her: "what's up, what do you like to do for fun?"

She answers "anything you want." She was expressionless. No cute wink as if it were a joke, no eye roll or sarcasm, just very direct.

I was shocked and said "what?!?" She stared right back at me. I went back to talking to my friend, it was just too direct for me. We were all inside like a minute later and I lost her in the bar.

Has anyone encountered a girl this direct?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not personally, but they definitely exist!
My handsome wing had sex with a young girl who he had accidentally 'blocked in' in the car park outside a club within about 2 minutes of her confronting him over his bad parking once!
 
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You screwed up by not talking to her more, whether she was really DTF or not. It would serve as practice. You can look at it as a boxer coming off a long lay off looking to get rounds in.
 

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Dont always believe everything someone says. She could have just been saying it to get a rise out of you or could have been whacked out of her mind on some drugs at the time.

Your response should have been "Come with me." Take her by the hand to a more secluded location and then tell her "Get on your knees and suck my c0ck." Would have found out pretty quickly where her chips lay.
 

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OldSkoolr: what's up, what do you like to do for fun?
Girl: Whatever you want
OldSkoolr: Awesome, I got some cleaning you can help me do. How's your gardening skills?

To me it seems she gave you the opportunity to show your game, but you blew it.

Dont worry man, learn from the expierience and get better.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OldSkoolr: what's up, what do you like to do for fun?
Girl: Whatever you want
OldSkoolr: Awesome, I got some cleaning you can help me do. How's your gardening skills?

To me it seems she gave you the opportunity to show your game, but you blew it.

Dont worry man, learn from the expierience and get better.
Man why all you try to be funny all the time? I agree with the above poster. Just take her somewhere and call her bluff. Something similar happened to me but it was after the club ended. I asked this woman what she was doing after and she replied "you" and i just called a uber and took her to my hotel.
 

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She opened the door for you to talk to her
 

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Man why all you try to be funny all the time? I agree with the above poster. Just take her somewhere and call her bluff. Something similar happened to me but it was after the club ended. I asked this woman what she was doing after and she replied "you" and i just called a uber and took her to my hotel.
Everyone has their own style they are comfortable using.

Trick is to work whats best for you.
 

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Yea this has happened to me before not the exact words. It doesn't happen often but a few months ago a chick said this to me at a party. She said "Just about anything... what do you like?" The best way to handle this is to look her right back in the eyes and say "Prove it... I'm headed out to do something I like, come with me." Then go from there... typically they will back down and not go along with you right there. But if you challenge her, you'll get a date... if she is available.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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