"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I can’t believe it. I think she might have asked me out?

Sgthaytham

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Last night she messages me. Again, she sends me a picture, but this time of some food. I reply “Are you trying to make me jealous”, to which she replied “Maybe...”.

We have a little chat, and at one point she asks “Are you doing anything Saturday night? Because we might be able to do something”.

I’m actually gobsmacked - this has never happened to me.

Maybe it’s just her making time for me, since last time we spoke I suggested she get in touch when she wasn’t as busy.

Really surprised about this...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol this is a classic example of her wanting you to ask her out.
Proceed to set up a date immediately, very high probability of sex to happen.
 

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Not to be a downer but I’ve found recently that almost every time a girl asks me out, they tend to flake.

It’s either crazy high interest level or just because they want to mess you about. Hopefully it’s the former here.
 

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Why are you asking us? I don’t think she could have made her intentions clearer, unless she said “OP I’m free on Saturday, if you are too I’d like to spend time with you, seeing as it’s Saturday night and not afternoon, you could potentially get your d1ck wet if you play this right”.

My money is on OP fvcking this up either through lack of escalation or awkwardness on the date.

My money is on pornhub and cry.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sgthaytham

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Not to be a downer but I’ve found recently that almost every time a girl asks me out, they tend to flake.

It’s either crazy high interest level or just because they want to mess you about. Hopefully it’s the former here.
She set it.

She’s coming to mine at 7pm and we’ll be cooking together...

I hope it’s the former too.
 

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She set it.

She’s coming to mine at 7pm and we’ll be cooking together...

I hope it’s the former too.
It seems I doubted you, 90% chance of smash, make sure you drink some wine while cooking.
 

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Way too excited over something routine...relax before you blow it by being overly invested before anything has happened.
 

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She set it.

She’s coming to mine at 7pm and we’ll be cooking together...

I hope it’s the former too.
Dates with cooking are awesome. Good luck mate.
 

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Way too excited over something routine...relax before you blow it by being overly invested before anything has happened.
It's the emotions of a newbie, let him go through the first few sparkles of this LOL
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Please let us know how it goes.
Had a fantastic night together - it really couldn't have gone any better.

She stayed until 4am, but had to go rescue her sister who was clubbing - she was plastered and kept sending my date snapchats.

The next day she sent this: “(my name)... thank you so much for last night, I had a great time”

The best part, besides the sex, was making out with her when we watched this massive lightning storm...
 

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Had a fantastic night together - it really couldn't have gone any better.

She stayed until 4am, but had to go rescue her sister who was clubbing - she was plastered and kept sending my date snapchats.

The next day she sent this: “(my name)... thank you so much for last night, I had a great time”

The best part, besides the sex, was making out with her when we watched this massive lightning storm...
Awesome!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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I must be doing something right, she’s just asked when we could neet again!
Just relax and don't blow it by going lonely puppy dog because you just had sex with her once.
 

Sgthaytham

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Been a while since you posted. How is the whole thing going.
Really good actually. She’s in the biggest week of her exams, so we havent seen eachother in a couple weeks.

We made it official on the 23rd June. She told me she wants us to be serious.

Really, really like her.

Something’s happened, though, I'm going to make a new thread.
 
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