"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why is she ignoring me after ons/first hook up

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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flowtheory

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Keep banging her obv..:
If it’s just sex... there’s sooooo many other options out there that can give that to you while not playing games with your time. You are what made the experience good for you by the sounds of it, she was just there and happened to have a good time because of what you did. Go experience something new.
 

sazc

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In her eyes your SMV is low.

Who knows what combination of LMS and or sexual prowess and or personality caused this.

Thing is, you shouldn't be investing all this worry and concern into a ONS.

I understand that your goal is to spin the type of plates that call you for hookups, instead of you calling them, but this chick ain't that girl.

Time to move on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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machoMax

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In her eyes your SMV is low.

Who knows what combination of LMS and or sexual prowess and or personality caused this.

Thing is, you shouldn't be investing all this worry and concern into a ONS.

I understand that your goal is to spin the type of plates that call you for hookups, instead of you calling them, but this chick ain't that girl.

Time to move on.

I am Sharing your opinion 101%.
 
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