"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A story of when a woman joined a male boxing web board

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Twas way back in 2010 this story takes place.

I used to frequent a certain boxing forum as I'm a huge fan of the sport, made a few friends on there etc.

One day people started talking about "boss lady". I didnt pay any mind at first but the talking kept going until almost every thread i went into was mentioning her.

She frequented "the lounge" section of the site, had pics of herself in her AVI and i kid you not she was a 4/10. Later transpires she was a 21 y/o single mum also.

Almost EVERY thread in that section was about her, guys kissing her ass, some old hands who were good members of that site got ran off the boards because they called her out.

One guy on there started giving her money, it transpired she was selling semi-nudes to dudes.

A mod from the site sort of summed it up

I dont know every detail... horton was friends with bossy, asked her for money, bossy was actually real life intimate with MiB, then Bossy ****ed skillspaybills in real life, verastyle fell in love with her via internet and phone, horton and terrel published pics and personal info of bossy, they got banned, MiB published texts from horton and verstyle(i think)... thats proly like 20% of all of what happened, I couldnt even keep up with it.. nor did i care that much. The only thing I care about is when someone posts someone elses personal info, then we have a problem... which is why terrel and horton are perma gone, and i like the both of them
I remember the damn site almost got shut down at one point.

All over 1 chick
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This can all be summed up by:

"Desperate dudes do desperate things"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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People who hang out on the internet 24/7 don't have social lives

People who don't have social lives lack them for a reason

99% of men on the internet are socially awkward creeps and losers except on forums that specifically cater to curing that problem (bodybuilding, PUA, red pill, etc.)

99% of women on the internet are either ****ing nuts (mentally ill, shut ins, unlikeably bitchy, neurotic, etc.) or fat and ugly or both.

Except on socially normal places like facebook where everyone uses, but i don't imagine that the kind of person who is on social media 24/7 is mentally healthy or has an active social life either.

This is why women destroy WoW guilds, because guys who are nerdy enough to put hundreds of hours into grinding dungeons and doing raids, tend to be beta enough to get on their knees and beg for scraps when a woman shows up, it's no different with a boxing forum

Not a good microcosm of real life normal dudes unless you think all normal dudes are socially awkward lol
 

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People who hang out on the internet 24/7 don't have social lives

People who don't have social lives lack them for a reason

99% of men on the internet are socially awkward creeps and losers except on forums that specifically cater to curing that problem (bodybuilding, PUA, red pill, etc.)

99% of women on the internet are either ****ing nuts (mentally ill, shut ins, unlikeably bitchy, neurotic, etc.) or fat and ugly or both.

Except on socially normal places like facebook where everyone uses, but i don't imagine that the kind of person who is on social media 24/7 is mentally healthy or has an active social life either.

This is why women destroy WoW guilds, because guys who are nerdy enough to put hundreds of hours into grinding dungeons and doing raids, tend to be beta enough to get on their knees and beg for scraps when a woman shows up, it's no different with a boxing forum

Not a good microcosm of real life normal dudes unless you think all normal dudes are socially awkward lol
And yet you posted?

Some just.like talking shyt. Internet is a great place for that .
 

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And yet you posted?

Some just.like talking shyt. Internet is a great place for that .
When i made this account my social life was a hell of a lot more active than it is now, so i posted a lot less.

Now that i don't hang out with my friends til 6pm every day i have plenty of time for this lmao.

Besides, i specifically exempted forums meant to get rid of that pesky social awkwardness like this one

I didn't mean that if you post even once on a forum you're a loser, i meant people who have time to hang out on specific forums tend not to have booming social lives. There's only so much time in day you know?
 

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When i made this account my social life was a hell of a lot more active than it is now, so i posted a lot less.

Now that i don't hang out with my friends til 6pm every day i have plenty of time for this lmao.

Besides, i specifically exempted forums meant to get rid of that pesky social awkwardness like this one

I didn't mean that if you post even once on a forum you're a loser, i meant people who have time to hang out on specific forums tend not to have booming social lives. There's only so much time in day you know?

Except reddit...if you find your way to reddit and STAY there....something is wrong.
 

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When i made this account my social life was a hell of a lot more active than it is now, so i posted a lot less.

Now that i don't hang out with my friends til 6pm every day i have plenty of time for this lmao.

Besides, i specifically exempted forums meant to get rid of that pesky social awkwardness like this one

I didn't mean that if you post even once on a forum you're a loser, i meant people who have time to hang out on specific forums tend not to have booming social lives. There's only so much time in day you know?
Yeah agree.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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