"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Agree or Disagree? Power Imbalances in Relationships

Power Imbalances in Relationships


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In the initial stages of dating, both sexes are testing/qualifying each other to determine their role in the relationship dynamics.
Your time is valuable as a man.
Her pu$$y is valuable as a women.

Giving her too much of your time and money creates a power imbalance.
She has power over you until she gives up sex. Her golden vagina is no longer shielded once she gives it up.
If the imbalance of power continues for too long, she'll lose attraction towards you.
Get the drop on her by giving her less time and attention.

Women at this day in age are raised to be independent and taught they don't need a man for everything.
Don't be fooled by this nonsense.
Too much of an imbalance in her favor creates levels of disrespect, depending on how much power she has over you.
A man has to fall into the masculine role and the woman into the feminine role.
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EDIT: This is the first time I've made a poll in over a decade. Forgive me if I typed incorrectly.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Always keep an imbalance and make sure its in your favor. You will win more than you lose that way. The best way to keep her interest is when you have power over her. The one who cares the least always has the most power.
 

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I don't see your point here. This is first grade stuff in sosuave. Women care about *****, men care about time bla bla bla. I don't see a point.
 

lizardking82

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Always keep an imbalance and make sure its in your favor. You will win more than you lose that way. The best way to keep her interest is when you have power over her. The one who cares the least always has the most power.
I would add that it's not always about having the power, it's also about being OK with not having it in some cases. What drives them even more crazy than a man in power is a man that should be frustrated with the lack of power, but is cool as fack LOL
 
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