"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Men had set up civilization to regulate intimacy; women witholding it are making men destroy it

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I have been reading some articles about men raging upon women that have rejecting them:

https://mic.com/articles/135394/14-...r-rejecting-men-why-arent-we-talking-about-it

And it occurred to me that the whole reason that civilization had been set up was to orderly regulate sexual intimacy - i.e., it was better for all involved that each man be given a woman, so as to stop men from simply raping women - and now that women have destroyed the a-woman-for-every-man, lifetime-monogamy social schema, men in return have decided to start destroying civilization. Women don't understand that the reason we even have a civilization in which they generally don't have to be victims of sexual violence is because men had decided to make it so - and that men can choose to not make it so.

Women have choice in sexuality; men have choice in civility.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wonen withholding intimacy??

Dude its never been easier to get laid than it is right now.

This article should talk about guys with no ambition or drive to do anything who refuse to spend any effort or time improving themselves so they can tap into this.
 

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This is the times of men who actually have social skills and work on their life and style. This is no time for "good men". Understand me right, I think good men are needed in the world, but when sexuality is set free, being a good man will only make you one-dimensional and boring to women.

This is a good system for DJs who are good at dealing with women and people in general and now a single DJ can have 5 plates or even more if he wants while there are 10 men "dying" without any sex at all. This is the survival of the fittest. There is no more listening to the elderly and their wisdom, there is just a world of free sexual predation where the best predators get the most prey.

Personally, I would say this is good, but only for the ones who ARE good + in general, if we want to take civilization forward (whatever that means), the older system or at least a version of the older system where sexuality is a bit more "sacred" and contained, is better. Though I am curious to see where this will lead. I think this type of system has rarely been into action so this is its first run.
 

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Wonen withholding intimacy??

Dude its never been easier to get laid than it is right now.

This article should talk about guys with no ambition or drive to do anything who refuse to spend any effort or time improving themselves so they can tap into this.
OK, I'll rephrase it:
Women are withholding intimacy to the 80% of men that they do not consider genetically or socially acceptable.
 

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Elliot Rodger:
"If we can't solve our problems, we must DESTROY our problems. One day incels will realize their true strength and numbers, and will overthrow this oppressive feminist system. Start envisioning a world where WOMEN FEAR YOU."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OK, I'll rephrase it:
So what? Men withhold relationships from women they don't see as worthy (constantly preached on this site), and rightly so. Men have every right to withhold attention and emotional investment from women they don't feel are worth it.

And women have every right to withhold sex from men they don't feel are worth it.

Doesn't matter how unrealistic those reasons may be for men or women, the fact is they still have that right and that's just how it is.

We don't live in a society where women or men are forced to sleep with/ marry against their will because sociaty thinks everyone should have what they want so that no one's left out.

Its not like grade school where every kid got a medal just for showing up to the race.
 

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OK, I'll rephrase it:
That's still BS...again, this goes back to men refusing to take responsibility for their lack of success. Stop blaming women and start blaming your self.
 
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