"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lizardking82

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Girl added me on Facebook about two weeks ago and has been liking a couple of pics so I decided to say hi today and I did and the conversation flew pretty, pretty quickly. She told me she would like to shoot some pics, I ask her what kind, she tells me some hot ones, too and everything flows from there and in about half an hour she sends me her tits (god, what gorgeous ones, like size 5+, round and just beautiful) and she has a fit body.

She gave me her phone number, told me she doesn't live in Tirana where I live but is coming for work tonight and will sleep here tomorrow, too. Apparently she comes often to Tirana. She told me she can't take me to her hotel room tonight cause her company has assigned her in the hotel room with a friend and she had to work tonight, but she said we'll see tomorrow. I tested the waters and sent her a message a bit later telling her I am passing by the zone where her hotel is cause I have to meet a friend and give him sth (really had to and did), but she did not answer that message so I will not "disturb" anymore for tonight.

Tomorrow, do you guys think I should write to her or let her write to me? Any other thoughts are also more than welcome.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Never mind, guys, she wrote early morning twice and we're meeting today at around 4 PM at her hotel. All is good
 

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Keep an eye on your kidneys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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