Thinking about getting professional pics for online dating

[mrgoodstuff]

My issue is I absolutely hate rejection so I only want to approach women who either initiate with me or give me strong signs of interest...and none of those are ever who I want

I can't do the barreling into a group of 6 random women and trying to make the 1 I want like me



I already make small talk a lot with people everywhere I go. It doesn't help me

Keep in mind I have a very specific type in mind. I'm not going to randomly make friends with people who know somebody like that. I have to cold approach or do online dating'

I'm not going to randomly make friends with someone who knows a hot, fit, 25 year old Spanish girl, with no kids, who has a decent job and a great personality

You can't choose your FANS, Dave. Maybe you look too sharp for the hot girls you "think" you want. They might have a need to appear to be the "sharp" one. Stop being a girl .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You can't choose your FANS, Dave. Maybe you look too sharp for the hot girls you "think" you want. They might have a need to appear to be the "sharp" one. Stop being a girl .

When you allow these non "stunners" who Like you alit to position you as "the man" in life opportunities will be all around you. That girl checklist mindset doesn't work. Neither does thinking you have to be perfect. That puts them on a pedastal.

Once you allow these women to ANNOINT you, you will be killing it in Chicago across all races .

You will see "hot girls" are in COMPETITION with a "hot guy" and attempt to knock him off his throne at every turn.

Stop looking at them more than others just cause they take better care of the outside.

Go fvck some pvssy man . Do the world a favor and sling some quality dyck and give these women who like you a good experience .

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

My issue is I absolutely hate rejection so I only want to approach women who either initiate with me or give me strong signs of interest...and none of those are ever who I want

Really? I get a huge raging hard on for it.

I can't do the barreling into a group of 6 random women and trying to make the 1 I want like me

Post back when you can.

I already make small talk a lot with people everywhere I go. It doesn't help me[

Get better at pickup. Relying on the meat market that is online is weak. It is a cesspool of female logic and attention *****s. I am not saying don't do it. I saying, hardwire cold approach and swiping right at life.

Keep in mind I have a very specific type in mind. I'm not going to randomly make friends with people who know somebody like that. I have to cold approach or do online dating'

Your 'specific type' is what keeps you fence sitting.

I'm not going to randomly make friends with someone who knows a hot, fit, 25 year old Spanish girl, with no kids, who has a decent job and a great personality

You're being stupid. You don't have a vagina even though you are acting like a *****. You don't have the luxury of sitting back and doing nothing. You are already more aesthetic then most guys here. Your game sucks and your practically child-like with your lack of confidence, efficiency, and excuse making.

 

[bigdave17]

Really? I get a huge raging hard on for it.



Post back when you can.



Get better at pickup. Relying on the meat market that is online is weak. It is a cesspool of female logic and attention *****s. I am not saying don't do it. I saying, hardwire cold approach and swiping right at life.



Your 'specific type' is what keeps you fence sitting.



You're being stupid. You don't have a vagina even though you are acting like a *****. You don't have the luxury of sitting back and doing nothing. You are already more aesthetic then most guys here. Your game sucks and your practically child-like with your lack of confidence, efficiency, and excuse making.

I've recently lost like 15 to 20 lbs and I'm doing the 4 day stubble. If I can get a photographer to take some quality pics to showcase how I look in real life, don't you think I would be able to dominate for online dating? How many guys on dating sites have my combination of looks, huge income, being college educated and a decent profile? I'm very good looking right now in real life

I want to do online dating because I'm very picky and I want somebody very specific

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I've recently lost like 15 to 20 lbs and I'm doing the 4 day stubble. If I can get a photographer to take some quality pics to showcase how I look in real life, don't you think I would be able to dominate for online dating? How many guys on dating sites have my combination of looks, huge income, being college educated and a decent profile? I'm very good looking right now in real life

I want to do online dating because I'm very picky and I want somebody very specific

Dude that's how females think . It doesn't work in the manosphere. Dude did you know male models often have "average" looking girlfriends? Like 6-7's that are probably mostly loyal and treat them great.

A hot girl most certainly will be in competition with you for who gets to be the "sharp one" . You will be miserable because even her complying in sex helps you. Trust me it's nuts.

Thank us after you ANNOINT yourself with some of the love that women already want to give you. Just don't be an a$$ about it and make sure their pleased. Life will treat you great.

And the same ones you think are HAWT today will be chasing you after your fans increase your ego and Sex swag.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

BigDave, your "game" is compromised of layers, like an onion . A huge component of it is external validation and sex. It's what they are attracted to . If these layers aren't fed for even 4-8 weeks they dry out and you end up looking "thirsty" or "desperate". Women kinda hate thinking about effing a man whose not fvcking.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I've recently lost like 15 to 20 lbs and I'm doing the 4 day stubble. If I can get a photographer to take some quality pics to showcase how I look in real life, don't you think I would be able to dominate for online dating? How many guys on dating sites have my combination of looks, huge income, being college educated and a decent profile? I'm very good looking right now in real life

I want to do online dating because I'm very picky and I want somebody very specific

Look on local links for students with a background in photography or seek out a professional. You can do it relatively cheap. Still, you can get catfishs, women posting pics from HS or freshman year when hawt and thin. She cannot put on filters or hide being a slob IRL.

For someone who pushes looks, you are lacking in social equity, calibration, and game. You've got ways to go but, you're lazy as ****. You can step your game up and likely clean up better than most.

You're in the minor leagues warming the bench. You can step up or hope women think your pretty.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Look on local links for students with a background in photography or seek out a professional. You can do it relatively cheap. Still, you can get catfishs, women posting pics from HS or freshman year when hawt and thin. She cannot put on filters or hide being a slob IRL.

For someone who pushes looks, you are lacking in social equity, calibration, and game. You've got ways to go but, you're lazy as ****. You can step your game up and likely clean up better than most.

You're in the minor leagues warming the bench. You can step up or hope women think your pretty.

He can like forget worrying about looks for the next few years and figure his game out.

 

[bigdave17]

He can like forget worrying about looks for the next few years and figure his game out.

I dunno what more I can do for my looks

I'm already lean and muscular
I have heavily masculine facial features with great jawline and facial hair
I dress super nice
I'm getting hair transplant in 4 weeks to have perfect, thick, wavy black hair


Im getting in territory of 8/10. I just need some opportunities with women in my league

 

[R.U.G.]

I dunno what more I can do for my looks

I'm already lean and muscular
I have heavily masculine facial features with great jawline and facial hair
I dress super nice
I'm getting hair transplant in 4 weeks to have perfect, thick, wavy black hair


Im getting in territory of 8/10. I just need some opportunities with women in my league

Brother, you need to get with the program. Nice guys get slaughtered.

 

[Fzatf]

I dunno what more I can do for my looks

I'm already lean and muscular
I have heavily masculine facial features with great jawline and facial hair
I dress super nice
I'm getting hair transplant in 4 weeks to have perfect, thick, wavy black hair


Im getting in territory of 8/10. I just need some opportunities with women in my league

The professional photos should help with OLD. Good for you for finally being willing to try it. However, you should still look for opportunities to approach in person. Don't pedestalize the women and go for the girls your after. You'll never succeed if you treat yourself as unworthy and not good enough for the women you're attracted to. You're currently getting in your own way.

You're unwilling to use girls and that's noble, but there are girls who are happy to sleep with guys and not lead to a relationship. You can smash the girls who are into you and just let them know you're not looking for something serious. They don't have to know that you mean you're not looking for something serious with them because they lack a qualifier in your requirements. Plenty of girls are happy to hook up with guys and not lead to a commitment. You mention hot older women, well if you're attracted to them you should enjoy them. They're making it easy for you by showing interest.

You'll be much happier if you shoot for what you want in OLD and in person. In addition you should be enjoying a sex life while you're looking for Ms Perfect.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Brother, you need to get with the program. Nice guys get slaughtered.

Game is required! Especially with "hot" girls, they are GAME .