Thinking about getting professional pics for online dating

[bigdave17]

I'm just not getting anywhere in real life dating. My basic problem is the natural opportunities I have with women never fit what I want (They're not cute enough, they're too old, they're not fit enough, etc...) so I end up not pursuing because they're not what I want. The women I do want are always in situations where an approach is just way too difficult. Last night I had 2 women try to initiate conversation with me but neither were dateable (not cute enough, not nice enough bodies).


I'm thinking about hammering online dating but how do I go about getting a professional to help me with pictures? and what should I do? just a couple nice pics outside of me in a fitted shirt? Do I go on craigslist looking for a professional photographer?


and what are the odds of me finding what I want for online dating? You guys have seen pics of me, I'm like a 6-7 in the face with a good body and good fashion sense. What are the odds of getting a woman via online dating that is


- 7-8 in the face
- Nice body that is both curvy and athletic
- No kids
- decent job
- Somewhat smart
- Super nice
- Loyal
- Spanish/Italian/Greek/Middle eastern. I would be open to other races but I have a very strong preference for mediterranean features


I live in a suburb 45 minutes from Chicago

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm just not getting anywhere in real life dating. My basic problem is the natural opportunities I have with women never fit what I want (They're not cute enough, they're too old, they're not fit enough, etc...) so I end up not pursuing because they're not what I want. The women I do want are always in situations where an approach is just way too difficult. Last night I had 2 women try to initiate conversation with me but neither were dateable (not cute enough, not nice enough bodies).


I'm thinking about hammering online dating but how do I go about getting a professional to help me with pictures? and what should I do? just a couple nice pics outside of me in a fitted shirt? Do I go on craigslist looking for a professional photographer?


and what are the odds of me finding what I want for online dating? You guys have seen pics of me, I'm like a 6-7 in the face with a good body and good fashion sense. What are the odds of getting a woman via online dating that is


- 7-8 in the face
- Nice body that is both curvy and athletic
- No kids
- decent job
- Somewhat smart
- Super nice
- Loyal
- Spanish/Italian/Greek/Middle eastern. I would be open to other races but I have a very strong preference for mediterranean features


I live in a suburb 45 minutes from Chicago

Your way of looking at it doesn't help you . I was doing the same thing . It makes you think you have to land the one that fits your qualifications and thus you over pursue.

Turn the tables . Have you been having sex? Stop disrespecting the women who currently like you enough to give it to you .

Once your having regular sexual relations other females will want some.

 

[bigdave17]

Your way of looking at it doesn't help you . I was doing the same thing . It makes you think you have to land the one that fits your qualifications and thus you over pursue.

Turn the tables . Have you been having sex? Stop disrespecting the women who currently like you enough to give it to you .

Once your having regular sexual relations other females will want some.

I feel like I'm being a bad person if I have sex with a woman who I don't want to date

Women can't do casual sex. Every single woman I've ever had sex with wanted to date me long term. To me that's just immoral

What's making this difficult for me is I really don't want to date a light skin white woman. I see white couples at my job where the woman is 50 and the man is 50 and the woman looks like she's 15 years older. light skin white ladies age horrific

I want Latina/Middle eastern primarily (I'm middle eastern myself)

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Stop feeling like a bad person . That was effing me over too . Men are dogs. If we fight our nature too strongly it effs us.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

In my own life I'm liking myself more, happy and I'm gaining fans . Some of them I wouldn't make my woman but fvcking them will add meat to my game and to my swag.

Man has to feed his masculinity.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Bigdave17 . In your pics to me you look "dry" and a little too critical and angry . Let some of these babes grease you up. Like them for being decent women. Be honest that your not Rushing things .You will be really attractive . You'll having the hot babes you want chasing you and you'll be rejecting them. Game is about attraction.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Would you deal with a loyal, smart and we'll paid dark skinned indian?

 

[RickTheToad]

Professional photos help, but will only get you in the door. If you do not think you are the man, they will see right through you and they will not find you sexually attractive. I know the professional photos seemed to help me, and I am sure they will help you. However, you want model type women, I am happy with HB6-7. I am simple. I have dated HB8+ and they are nothing but trouble and expense. You need to work on yourself. Or, you'll turn into my cousin, Richardthefrog and start hating women and fvcking escorts with no avail. Plus, you will not feel fulfilled from the experience. Couples like having sex to bond. If a person is paying for sex, there is no bond aside from a monetary transaction. Thus, it's not mentally fulfilling. You might as well as just get a pocket pvssy if one is going to just use a woman as a masturbatory aid.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Professional photos help, but will only get you in the door. If you do not think you are the man, they will see right through you and they will not find you sexually attractive. I know the professional photos seemed to help me, and I am sure they will help you. However, you want model type women, I am happy with HB6-7. I am simple. I have dated HB8+ and they are nothing but trouble and expense. You need to work on yourself. Or, you'll turn into my cousin, Richardthefrog and start hating women and fvcking escorts with no avail. Plus, you will not feel fulfilled from the experience. Couples like having sex to bond. If a person is paying for sex, there is no bond aside from a monetary transaction. Thus, it's not mentally fulfilling. You might as well as just get a pocket pvssy if one is going to just use a woman as a masturbatory aid.

That's why I asked him to start fvcking the females who ALREADY think "he's the man" . They will inject this image and serve as a frame for this part of his essense. One thing about women, thru always want men that other women want or are getting with.

 

[bigdave17]

Would you deal with a loyal, smart and we'll paid dark skinned indian?

I rarely see Indian women who are attractive and I hate their culture and family values

I mostly want Armenian, Lebanese, Persian, etc...

Indian women are the ugly sister to middle eastern women...look similar but so much more ugly

 

[bigdave17]

Professional photos help, but will only get you in the door. If you do not think you are the man, they will see right through you and they will not find you sexually attractive. I know the professional photos seemed to help me, and I am sure they will help you. However, you want model type women, I am happy with HB6-7. I am simple. I have dated HB8+ and they are nothing but trouble and expense. You need to work on yourself. Or, you'll turn into my cousin, Richardthefrog and start hating women and fvcking escorts with no avail. Plus, you will not feel fulfilled from the experience. Couples like having sex to bond. If a person is paying for sex, there is no bond aside from a monetary transaction. Thus, it's not mentally fulfilling. You might as well as just get a pocket pvssy if one is going to just use a woman as a masturbatory aid.

all I need is dates dude. I'm excellent on dates. I just need the opportunity

and I don't want models, I want 7-8s with nice bodies. I'm prolly like a 7 to 7.5 myself

 

[RickTheToad]

I rarely see Indian women who are attractive and I hate their culture and family values

I mostly want Armenian, Lebanese, Persian, etc...

Indian women are the ugly sister to middle eastern women...look similar but so much more ugly

So basically, he wants Kim Kardashian. Are you Armenian Orthodox? They're pretty strict with their religions.

That's why I asked him to start fvcking the females who ALREADY think "he's the man" . They will inject this image and serve as a frame for this part of his essense. One thing about women, thru always want men that other women want or are getting with.

Depends on the lady. If she's hot, sure go for it. The problem is he wants really hot women. He seems to also give off the vibe that he puts them on a pedestal and treats them like they are a higher status than he is.

Did he post pics of himself? If so, how were the clothes? I had to buy all new clothes to help increase my value. He also has to work on himself and his self worth. If he thinks he's not worthy, why would they think otherwise?

 

[Reykhel]

what happened to the mexicana

 

[RickTheToad]

all I need is dates dude. I'm excellent on dates. I just need the opportunity

and I don't want models, I want 7-8s with nice bodies. I'm prolly like a 7 to 7.5 myself

Then, get the professional pics. If you are in the US, you can go to Groupon or Yelp for some good deals. That is what I did. 6 high res pics for 250. Make sure you have nice clothes and you dress to what the ladies you are looking for like. I am older than you so all my images were of me with suits. Fail. I just had different shirts and pants and it made a huge difference. How's your profile? It should be short, sweet and to the point. I forgot the thread, but @Amante Silvestre had some great pointers that worked for him. I used some of them and it helped.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So basically, he wants Kim Kardashian. Are you Armenian Orthodox? They're pretty strict with their religions.




Depends on the lady. If she's hot, sure go for it. The problem is he wants really hot women. He seems to also give off the vibe that he puts them on a pedestal and treats them like they are a higher status than he is.

Did he post pics of himself? If so, how were the clothes? I had to buy all new clothes to help increase my value. He also has to work on himself and his self worth. If he thinks he's not worthy, why would they think otherwise?

That's why I asked him to let his current FANS to put him on his own pedestal. He's not going to eat shyt from some "hot" bytch if he has pvssy on demand with folks who treat him like a king.

He needs to start fvcking I can see that from the pics.

Once his game is right he will see most of these "hot" chicks are full of shyt and over selling themselves.

He needs abundance within his current choices. Bytches choose a chosen man like flies to shyt.

 

[bigdave17]

So basically, he wants Kim Kardashian. Are you Armenian Orthodox? They're pretty strict with their religions.

I'm 100% Armenian. Born in Yerevan

and most of us are not religious at all, who told you that?

Depends on the lady. If she's hot, sure go for it. The problem is he wants really hot women. He seems to also give off the vibe that he puts them on a pedestal and treats them like they are a higher status than he is.

That's a part of it. The bigger problem is I rarely see any easy opportunities with anybody worth dating

I encounter easy dating opportunities but the women are usually average looking or they're cute but in their 30s. I want someone in her mid 20s with a cute face and nice body

Did he post pics of himself? If so, how were the clothes? I had to buy all new clothes to help increase my value. He also has to work on himself and his self worth. If he thinks he's not worthy, why would they think otherwise?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I rarely see Indian women who are attractive and I hate their culture and family values

I mostly want Armenian, Lebanese, Persian, etc...

Indian women are the ugly sister to middle eastern women...look similar but so much more ugly

I dunno, I see quite a few fine indian women. And even the butter face ones have good skin and seem like they wouldn't be stabbing you in the back everytime you turn around like an American.

 

[RickTheToad]

That's why I asked him to let his current FANS to put him on his own pedestal. He's not going to eat shyt from some "hot" bytch if he has pvssy on demand with folks who treat him like a king.

He needs to start fvcking I can see that from the pics.

Once his game is right he will see most of these "hot" chicks are full of shyt and over selling themselves.

He needs abundance within his current choices. Bytches choose a chosen man like flies to shyt.

Perhaps, but if he has a low image of himself, they will also see through it as well. He can always go the fat or ugly route, however, I tried the below average looking ones a couple of times, and I couldn't get a chubby when I kissed them so I nexted them. If he don't rise, then I just say goodbye.

 

[RickTheToad]

I'm 100% Armenian. Born in Yerevan

and most of us are not religious at all, who told you that?




That's a part of it. The bigger problem is I rarely see any easy opportunities with anybody worth dating

I encounter easy dating opportunities but the women are usually average looking or they're cute but in their 30s. I want someone in her mid 20s with a cute face and nice body

You need better shoes. A nicer watch would help. Redish shirt looks good, not crazy about the blue one. Looks a little flairy with the sleeves. You look like a young Michael Dell.

 

[bigdave17]

That's why I asked him to let his current FANS to put him on his own pedestal. He's not going to eat shyt from some "hot" bytch if he has pvssy on demand with folks who treat him like a king.

He needs to start fvcking I can see that from the pics.

Once his game is right he will see most of these "hot" chicks are full of shyt and over selling themselves.

He needs abundance within his current choices. Bytches choose a chosen man like flies to shyt.

my 2 problems with dating is

1)I over estimate hot women's standards and still believe they only want a super perfect man

2)I hate risk and I hate approaching women unless it's a very easy natural scenario. Guess what? the only women who make it easy to approach them are average looking. Good looking women have 2593205230523 dating options already so you have to "go through the fire" to get one interested in you