Experience with a married mom

[greatsnake]

I went to a music event this past Saturday and ran into a chick. We started making out, she told me that she wanted to chill after the event, so we went to a bar. Later on, we ended up in her car and the following conversation ensued--

her: what if I told you that I'm married?
me: I don't mind, you take care of your stuff.
her: you don't care about me, you're treating me like a *****.
me: this is what you signed up for.
her: I'm an emotional person, you're just using me
me: you're enjoying it

after the going back and forth, we had sex and knocked out in her car.

Now my question is.. what was going through her head? she didn't want to feel bad that we were ****ing, that she had to project all these things on me?

 

[CBear]

Yes, she said those things because in her mind, as long as she made it clear that shes married and that "you're just taking advantage of her", she'll have no reason to feel guilty or get in trouble later on.

 

[AJ84]

I went to a music event this past Saturday and ran into a chick. We started making out, she told me that she wanted to chill after the event, so we went to a bar. Later on, we ended up in her car and the following conversation ensued--

her: what if I told you that I'm married?
me: I don't mind, you take care of your stuff.
her: you don't care about me, you're treating me like a *****.
me: this is what you signed up for.
her: I'm an emotional person, you're just using me
me: you're enjoying it

after the going back and forth, we had sex and knocked out in her car.

Now my question is.. what was going through her head? she didn't want to feel bad that we were ****ing, that she had to project all these things on me?

Music event, bar.... Sounds like drunk logic to me. I wouldn't ponder too long over it.

 

[Serenity]

I have no words for this phenomenon yet, but I'm not surprised one bit by this. Humans do a lot of irrational things, including fvcking someone they shouldn't fvck. What you're asking is how to explain irrationality, I can't.

 

[Billtx49]

Yes, she said those things because in her mind, as long as she made it clear that shes married and that "you're just taking advantage of her", she'll have no reason to feel guilty or get in trouble later on.

Yep, her hamster was busy spinning away guilt, fault, motive, and accountability…
The old, it just happened, or he took advantage of me when I was drinking defense. Both are often used in tandem to support each other and enhance believability …

 

[AJ84]

Maybe you can speculate, if she wasn't drunk?

BPD

 

[Spaz]

I went to a music event this past Saturday and ran into a chick. We started making out, she told me that she wanted to chill after the event, so we went to a bar. Later on, we ended up in her car and the following conversation ensued--

her: what if I told you that I'm married?
me: I don't mind, you take care of your stuff.
her: you don't care about me, you're treating me like a *****.
me: this is what you signed up for.
her: I'm an emotional person, you're just using me
me: you're enjoying it

after the going back and forth, we had sex and knocked out in her car.

Now my question is.. what was going through her head? she didn't want to feel bad that we were ****ing, that she had to project all these things on me?

I would have just kept quiet and walk away leaving her humiliated.

Plenty of single available women for me 2 fvck.

 

[The Duke]

Music event, bar.... Sounds like drunk logic to me. I wouldn't ponder too long over it.

Many females exhibit "drunk logic" even when sober! Consider yourself lucky you don't have to decode and tip-toe around this schitt as a man.

 

[greatsnake]

I told her that the next time I saw her (if it happens), I wanted to see her wearing a mini skirt and black heels.

 

[AJ84]

Many females exhibit "drunk logic" even when sober! Consider yourself lucky you don't have to decode and tip-toe around this schitt as a man.

That is true yes.

 

[greatsnake]

Damn, the last thing I wanted her was to text me this weekend and she did just that a couple of minutes ago..

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I have no words for this phenomenon yet, but I'm not surprised one bit by this. Humans do a lot of irrational things, including fvcking someone they shouldn't fvck. What you're asking is how to explain irrationality, I can't.

I can. But there’s far too many variables to where you could write a whole research paper on the topic and I don’t have the verbal skills to really explain it either.

 

[Trump]

Later on, we ended up in her car and the following conversation ensued--

her: what if I told you that I'm married?
me: I don't mind, you take care of your stuff.
her: you don't care about me, you're treating me like a *****.
me: this is what you signed up for.
her: I'm an emotional person, you're just using me
me: you're enjoying it

after the going back and forth, we had sex and knocked out in her car.

Now my question is.. what was going through her head?

I’m wondering what you were thinking?


her: what if I told you that I took vows in front of 1000 friends and family that I will love and cherish my 6’1 husband in sickness and in health forever and forever. I knowingly signed a marriage contract with him and we are legally financially morally emotionally and sexually responsible for each other for the rest of our lives.

And your response is;

‘’I don't mind?’’

Wow!

 

[marmel75]

Yep, her hamster was busy spinning away guilt, fault, motive, and accountability…
The old, it just happened, or he took advantage of me when I was drinking defense. Both are often used in tandem to support each other and enhance believability …

He refused to take responsibility for her actions so she finally stopped trying and did what she wanted in the end

 

[marmel75]

I’m wondering what you were thinking?


her: what if I told you that I took vows in front of 1000 friends and family that I will love and cherish my 6’1 husband in sickness and in health forever and forever. I knowingly signed a marriage contract with him and we are legally financially morally emotionally and sexually responsible for each other for the rest of our lives.

And your response is;

‘’I don't mind?’’

Wow!

Actions not words. We all know females words are near meaningless.

 

[Billtx49]

He refused to take responsibility for her actions so she finally stopped trying and did what she wanted in the end

Yep, he didn’t, so she mentally manufactured her own plausible deniability if she got caught.