"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Four traits of weak ass beta males

CBear

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Yet you tell us this lol:


Yet anyone who disagrees with your fake ass is beta? And anyone who agrees with you is alpha? The irony...

No, sociopaths live for themselves dumbass. If someone was trying to hurt my brother but “I just can’t be bothered right now because I might get hurt too”, that’s the ultimate ***** **** right there. Here’s the thing, you choose not to live for others. But that doesn’t mean that you live for yourself. There’s men like me that would still put themselves in harms way for others. Don’t mean that we would let those same people walk all over us though. You can be selfless without taking **** from others.

Yet you can’t desire both? I can pummel a dude’s face in to make him do what I want just so that he can respect me. But he would hate my guts. And so would many others. They would eventually go against me. Get someone to like you though, there’s benefits. It’s about balance. Know when to be kind and when to be firm. To shift to one side only and call it absolute is done out of insecurity and thus weakness.
LOL I was gonna reply basically the same thing when I saw this thread but I feel like nothings gonna open his eyes.

He contradicts himself in every single point.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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*Alpha males want respect. Beta males want love.
This preoccupation of Alpha/Beta is just plain feminine thinking imo. I don't even think in that terms when I meet another man, all I need to do is look into his eyes and we'd both instinctively know where we stand and the stage is pretty much settled.

Maybe you mean Alpha has a dominant personality and beta is someone who is naturally passive ?

Anyhow, going to the last statement on, the "alpha" doesn't want respect (weak fvckers needs it) at least not in a true sense as most think, it's more to do with power, respect will follow later.

As for "Beta" I've no idea what they actually want, their wants and needs varies as much as a women's. I find this group of people to be unstable yet easily usable to make a profit.
 

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Never happened to me because I always confirm before wasting my valuable time. But it's happened to girls who I didn't confirm with, as well as three vets on this forum.

Even if you were to schedule a meet with your friend or family member whom you already know, you would shoot a text, "Hey, I'll meet you there at 8" to account for everyone's varied timing which could easily push out. As well things come up. And you and she have never met, so there is no investment in keeping plans and no social loss in flaking. It's quite silly and childish really and shows a lack of social acuity not to connect the day of.
If you say so. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
 

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People who worry about beta/alpha are definitely not alpha
Next thread I make, I'm calling it shyt weak ass beta males say. This post is first on the list.

Thing is.. to even argue with me is fuking beta. You should have better things to do.
 

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This preoccupation of Alpha/Beta is just plain feminine thinking imo. I don't even think in that terms when I meet another man, all I need to do is look into his eyes and we'd both instinctively know where we stand and the stage is pretty much settled.

Maybe you mean Alpha has a dominant personality and beta is someone who is naturally passive ?

Anyhow, going to the last statement on, the "alpha" doesn't want respect (weak fvckers needs it) at least not in a true sense as most think, it's more to do with power, respect will follow later.

As for "Beta" I've no idea what they actually want, their wants and needs varies as much as a women's. I find this group of people to be unstable yet easily usable to make a profit.
Don't care.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Carry on spidah, I do enjoy ur posts, amuses me when I see it gets other posters all ruffled up haha
 

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Thing is.. to even argue with me is fuking beta. You should have better things to do.
There is no argument just a statement of fact. And to start threads like this you must have an IQ under 50.
 
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There is no argument just a statement of fact. And to start threads like this you must have an IQ under 50.
Nope.

Use the ignore button my man. Don't have time for bitchy ass beta males trolling my threads.
 

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Nope.

Use the ignore button my man. Don't have time for bitchy ass beta males trolling my threads.
Stupid is as stupid does, Forrest. I didnt ruin your thread, it was doomed the minute you wrote this nonsense and hit the post button.

Maybe this might go over well with some 12 year olds...might want to move it to the high school forum.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The true alphas I know are wolves in sheep clothes. You will never see them coming.

They play to the audience's needs and indoctrinations--and take what they want.
 

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The true alphas I know are wolves in sheep clothes. You will never see them coming.

They play to the audience's needs and indoctrinations--and take what they want.
You're damn right my man.

Alphas play the smart game. Not the bitchy emotional games you see a lot of these weak ass motherfukers playing here on this forum.

But the four traits in the OP sum it up.
 
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